do you admit to your partner if you cheat on him/her?
By lithsue
@lithsue (45)
Philippines
April 22, 2007 12:01pm CST
just a scenario ok...? supposing you had a fling or third party in the relationship but found out you'd be better off in peace with just your partner.. would you come out in the open and admit you cheated? or will you just be silent and let that be something you'd keep till you die?post your answers pls...
2 responses
@elisa812 (3026)
• United States
23 Apr 07
I would never cheat on my husband because I can't imagine being with anyone but him, but if I was in a situation like that, I would have to tell the truth cause I think I would just die of guilt otherwise. I definitely think it's best to be honest about stuff like that, because otherwise it'd just be so hard to live with yourself keeping it inside constantly, and plus if your partner ever found out about it eventually later on and you've been hiding it from them, then it would make things even worse.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
22 Apr 07
First off, i don't think anyone should cheat if they can avoid it. but, if you did cheat, i think you should confess. if somehow your partner found out from someone else later it would be alot worse.