agh!

@breepeace (3014)
Canada
April 22, 2007 12:08pm CST
So I logged into my Facebook account today, and I have one new friend request. Excited to see who found me today, I click on it and to my surprise.. it's my ex boyfriend! My ex who lied, cheated on me 3 or more times, broke into my house after I kicked him out and dragged me down the hallway by my hair when we fought once. I haven't spoken to him since I called to scream at him for breaking into my house over 2 years ago. Yeah right! Is he just so excited to have found someone he knows on there that he just tried to add me? What rational person would add someone they parted on such bad terms with?
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5 responses
• United States
22 Apr 07
Wow - you poor thing...sorry to hear about such a bad break up,and I thought my ex broke my heart!!! What I think is that he is not really balanced mentally and you should stay away from him - hope you are well!
@breepeace (3014)
• Canada
22 Apr 07
He really wasn't a balanced individual -- prone to sudden outbursts, flares of temper and obviously lacking a conscience since he just kept sleeping with women behind my back and hiding it, then coming home and acting like I was the love of his life.
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• United States
24 Apr 07
i would just not accept him. i mean after all that? who does he think he is? and i mean if he wanted to make things right, i don't think facebook is the best way
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@breepeace (3014)
• Canada
24 Apr 07
There's no way he could possibly make things right after 2 years and all the things he said and did to me. I don't want someone like that in my life. I did decline him, Facebook's good that way, too, it won't let you re-request to be added to a friend's list, but it won't let you know if you were declined either.
@KarenO52 (2950)
• United States
22 Apr 07
Oh no! That would scare me. I'm not familiar with Facebook, but can you block him if he gets out of hand? I wouldn't trust someone like that, and would be very suspicious of any friendly overtures.
@breepeace (3014)
• Canada
22 Apr 07
I think declining his friend request should be sufficient, or at least, I hope so. I think it must drive him a little nuts to know that I'm back with my ex-boyfriend who was just my friend during the time I was trying to get rid of him, since he always accused me of cheating on him (like it's really any concern of his when I'm trying to dump him and he's cheated on me several times?) with my new guy.
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@Angie86 (55)
• Canada
25 Apr 07
I would decline The request, And If you really dont want him contacting you in anyway i would block him, that way he can't even find you when he does searches or anything, and you won't have to see him when you search or through a mutual friend.
• United States
22 Jul 07
Oh man, I'm sorry you had to go through all of that. You should have sued the heck out of him for breaking into your house. Definitely don't add someone like that to your friends. He must be really desperate. So pathetic.