LOVE MARRIAGE or ARRANGED MARRIAGE?
By shak143
@shak143 (1280)
India
April 22, 2007 12:12pm CST
Are you preffer love marriage or arranged marriage?
Most of aged persons says that arranged marriage is better than love marriage but young one says love marriage is best.But according to surveys it is clear that most couples who seek divorce are lovers before marriage.Why this is happening?
What happend to there LOVE after marriage?Is they really LOVE each other or they fell that they are IN LOVE?
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3 responses
@janicetherese (18)
• Philippines
22 Apr 07
Arranged marriage is out of respect and obedience to your culture and to the elders. So rarely does one get a divorce because the couple involve have a high respect to their culture and make sure that their tradition is followed. Unlike when it is Love marriage the reason is beacause of emotions that are involved. Emotions that sometimes the heart is always first before the head when it should be the other way around or at least they go hand in hand. Marriage should not be all about Love there a lot of factors to consider like one of them is are you ready to accept the person's not so nice personality and if you are able to adjust to it. But for me I would definitely choose Love Marriage because to be in love is such a wonderful and unforgettable experience that nothing can ever replace or buy.
@livelily (141)
• China
22 Apr 07
Wow,this is a perplexing problem, but I thought that the most people are prefer to love marriage and I am one of them.I remember ever has a conclution on the papernews, " the loving could only kept four years with two lovers, the other time need to depend on relative to keep their marriage.
