Boyfriend issues.

United States
April 22, 2007 3:22pm CST
Help anyone... I have been dating my current bf for 2 1/2 years now. We have always fought about the same things. One of the most common things we fight about is the fact that he won't discuss anything with me. I have a suspicion that he is smoking meth (which we broke up for in the past), even though he swears he isn't. I am unhappy when he is around because he doesn't think things through, however i can't get myself to break it off because i still love him... He says that he will do anything to keep me, however he won't make simple changes in his life and our relationship. What would you do? and suggestions?
2 responses
imransyed
@imransyed (266)
• Pakistan
22 Apr 07
Well dear friend if you are still loving him and he is also loving you. so it dont break with him. keep your relation but give him warning that if he will not change his life then you will leave him. then see what is his reaction if he really leaving his bad habits then continue with him otherwise break your relationship with him. :)
xtothez
@xtothez (93)
• United States
22 Apr 07
thats the thing.... we have been fighting about the same topics and same bad habits since we've been going out. i have warned him, and he still doesn't change... i don't know what to do
patricia24
@patricia24 (568)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
I think if you are ready to sacrifice everything for him and you truly love him then be patient and understanding but be sure to know all the consequences to where it may lead when you will still have him as your boyfriend. Just pray. Because if im in your situation i will leave him right away.