I Sometimes Wonder About People

maybe they're the same way. maybe they feel like u don't want to approach them. I'd say you break the ice and approach them. Make them cookies or next time u c them offer to help do yard work. my neighbors say hi, but they r pretty stuck up!

I say live and let live. Especially if you have tried once to be friendly with them and have been ignored. If you have not said anything, then they might just think you are being rude as well.

you would think that they would at least say to you, or at least a a smile nod.

Hummm, depends on how much you want to mend this. If you would like to be friendly, just send a nice "good morning" note, or bring a cake or cookies over their home. Or, if they are out there, say loudly, "hi." Maybe they are thinking the same thing, or shy, and waiting for you to make the first move.

Just ignore them. Thats what I do with my new neighbors next to me. But they are right the opposite than your neighbors. They won't do anything outside if I am outside doing yardwork. Or if they are outside and I come outside with my kids to play they will go inside with in 5 minutes of us coming outside. I have gotten to the point that I don't care about them and I am not going to go out of my way for them if the occasion arises. But of course my neighbors are very stuck up and unsocial!

Whatever time of the day it was I would acknowledge them with "Good Morning" "Godd afternoon" or evenjust "Hi, How are you?" If they dont answer then I would just continue doing it - that way your concience is clear.

I would just go about your business. Maybe they are just the kind of people that are not friendly...or they don't trust others...who knows. If they want to talk to you...they know where you live.

Well fist of all Terry they do not know what they are missing out on not knowing you And If I where you I would not worry to much about it to be honest They are not worth it and obviously rude People I have one living like that upstairs to me

If that's the way they wanted to be, I'd just get on with things. If they won't take a minute to say hi than maybe they're not worth your time.

I would have treated according to their treatment towards me. There should be any inferiority complex regarding this issue. Take it as a fun. You woudnt know when you are entangled in talking with your neighbour initiating by a silly matter some day. so keep your hope up and lets see what happened...all the best

I am a frindly person by nature and I am afraid taht I would have to yell and say "Hi, how are you today, itnt it a beautiful day. Good to see you outside enjoying the weather". I hate people who think they are better than everyone else and wont even be friendly. Maybe they will move soon. LOL

You think that's rude? My friend told me when she goes out her neighbours cheer! all the best urban

I have lived in this building since November of 1997, and there are some people I still do not know, the people who have the apartment next door never speak We share the same living room wall . Every time I pass them in the hall way i say hello or good morning, and they just stare at me, I used to get quite upset with this treatment, but They do not seem to want to be friendly and they now have friends moving in , who will live right across the hall from them. I can not be bothered to worry about them. I will always say hello, but anything else is not on my to do list.

I think maybe you can say "hello" to them first,if you said that ,perharps they will also be kind for you.If you say "hello" to them,but they also treat you as that you said,then you can also ignore them too.

Even I have same neighbours. In my apartment! As being younger one I always greet them saying "namaste"(indian culture). I greeted them for a year ever crossing them around but they never replied!! So now I stopped greeting time..well atleast there is one satisfaction that I did my duty ..now its their turn...so I cannot help them in this. I followed my principles and I am all cool now. Now I don't even look at them..! Once for the first time they invited us in their marriage aniversary but we didn't show up..!! huh after all this kind of behaviour how can one make merry with them ..!!

I really don't have this problem mine is the oppisite trying to make it to the car without somone stopping to chat. Bless my neighbors don't know what I would do without them. I used to live in the city where none of us in the same apartment really talked until one morning there was a fire and in the apartment next to me and I had to knock on everyone's doors to make them aware of the fire. It came to me then it is important to get to know your neighbors. Try something little like saying wow it is hot out here do you care for some tea I just made it. Something they can do outside to strike a conversation. You never know when an emergency will come up and you will need to depend on each other.

we can do nothing with this sort of neighbours. Live and Let Live is a good idea. there would be a day when they would ask us for help...then we can express our feelings. so don't worry about people as they are all kinds on the planet and we come across some kind in some situations. just go on with ur life!

we can do nothing with this sort of neighbours. Live and Let Live is a good idea. there would be a day when they would ask us for help...then we can express our feelings. so don't worry about people as they are all kinds on the planet and we come across some kind in some situations. just go on with ur life!

I have lived this building for 2 years,till now,you cant believe that i dont know my neighbors,sometime when i am outside,i really want to say hi,but everytime they always are cross the corridor quickly. some building like a birdcage,it makes us become strangers.

Well, my neighbor hate me lol, and i hate them :)