Moving on with my life.........
@jennawinseverytime (377)
United States
April 22, 2007 4:30pm CST
Everytime I voice out my anger with my boyfriend he makes me feel like I am crazy. I have no energy left to try to get him to understand where I am coming from, its all I ever do anymore is try to explain how some things he does I cant live with. The thing is that he doesnt treat me with respect he doesnt treat me like he cares that I am around sometimes. This morning when I was trying to voice to him my issue and he kept walking away he went to the other room where his son was and said he was going to take his son somewhere safe. All because I was trying to tell him how I felt, he wants to make me feel like a child abuser when I am the sweetest girl when it comes to kids. I think maybe hes trying to project his thoughts of insanity onto me. Then I came in the computer room and their was a roomates dot com site up, because I told him I was moving out. And its obvious that he isnt grown up enough to work anything out. But I am going to probaly move back to Queen Creek where my mom lives.
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@natalie1981 (1995)
• Singapore
23 Apr 07
I know how it feels like to try to tell your feelings to your boyfriend but it just seems to go out the other ear. How did you voice your anger towards your boyfriend? Were you shouting? Sometimes, when we're angry, we don't notice that our voice goes up a few notches high. My boyfriend always calls my attention to this specially when we're arguing in a public place. Maybe that's what he meant when he was taking away his son because he doesn't want his son to see the two of you fighting. It's always better to talk when you're both calm because both of you can get your feelings across. But if he's still acting childish and just wouldn't listen then it's really time to move on. Good luck.
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@jennawinseverytime (377)
• United States
7 May 07
Thanks, I am still processing my thoughts of the relationship.
@jennawinseverytime (377)
• United States
7 May 07
Thanks, I am still processing my thoughts of the relationship.
@tater03 (1765)
• United States
22 Apr 07
I have to say that if he is not listening to what you have to say and has such little disregard when you say that you are going to move out that he is already looking for a roomate, RUN, RUN, RUN. The longer you stay the more of a chance you take of settling for something that you right now this minute realize that you don't want. Good luck to you and I hope you find someone that respects you for what you have to give.
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@jennawinseverytime (377)
• United States
22 Apr 07
Thanks, its a lot easier for me to see it that way. My mom is gonna let me stay with her tommorrow night so i can think through things. And hopefully just move out.
@girtsmomma (297)
• United States
22 Apr 07
Try closing the gates of delight and the door of understanding may begin to open.
@ethansmommy (279)
• United States
22 Apr 07
what the freak does that stuff mean If the man is still a child nothing you can do about it but move on.
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@ethansmommy (279)
• United States
22 Apr 07
LOL a lot of men are like that well all the ones I know are like that. Mom did not pop the titttt out of the mouths yet. You will have hard time finding someone that is not loser like that. But all the luck to you. NO he is not adult yet. Sorry but just because he made a kid does not mean he is not a kid him self still. I have been there done that 5 times so trust me on that one lol.
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@jules19120 (4)
• United States
23 Apr 07
I had the same problem with my husband. I would try to point out the things he was doing wrong and it was like it couln't get through his head. He made it look like I was just a complainer and I was going crazy. And you know what at the end he did make go crazy to the pont where I started having panic attacks.
@jennawinseverytime (377)
• United States
7 May 07
Panic attacks? I hear ya. If you are in a relationship you have to be able to notice your lovers feelings and when they are being hurt, you would think right?
