What if he misinterpreted what you've said?

such misunderstandings do exist at times even in a very healthy relationship. i faced such such situations too and when nothing is working i just give the other a chance and some time to understand after explaining. i didnt raise the topic again but left it alone continuing the relationship with love and care as usual. and after few days when things started getting clear in her mind she raised the topic. i said just leave it. at the same time i suggested for a discussion so that any misunderstanding could be removed then and there. i feel communication is essentially a bridge of meaning between people and by using this bridge one can safely cross the river of misundanting that separates us.

Hi fatal_ivory. I admit that I am a talker and oftentimes I get misinterpreted. Which obviously leads to an argument then a day or two of no communication. However, since the frequency of this situation, I have learned to work around it. First off, I lower my pride and admit my fault if I know it is my fault. If not, I just apologize for not seeing things his way and shut up. I fairly do not allow sleep to dawn without clearing the air or apologizing. But when you've both been alleviated from the tension then try to discuss and explain your understanding of what happened. If your relationship is based in trust and established in good faith, no matter how hurt the other person is, chances are you will be able to mend things. Sometimes, peace offerings does help (ie flowers, chocolates, etc)