Perfect age for marriage???
By rainqueen21
@rainqueen21 (338)
United States
April 22, 2007 9:54pm CST
What do you think is the perfect age for marriage? I personally think that it all depends on your maturity level because i know many people of different ages and some are in there late 20's and acting like they are still in high school and others in there early 18-20's and married, having kids and being a mature responsible person
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8 responses
@Hobbz05 (84)
• Canada
23 Apr 07
I don't think there really is a perfect age to get married. My personal opinion is if u feel right about that person and see it lasting forever and think your ready for the next step in the relationship then it probably is the right time. You could be 18 when it happens or you could be 50!
@neezhom_almaniri (423)
• Malaysia
27 Apr 07
Yes, i agreed with you, it depends on maturity level first. Age factor comes after that. And then not to forget the factors of economy , compatibility, desire and so on ;)
But for age, i think between 25 - 30 is perfect, especially for guys :)
@rhionclead (278)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
it depends on the person...there is no perfect age for marriage...if you think than you can deal with the responsibilities then go for it...
@katzkii (140)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
I don't think there is a perfect age for married, as long as long as you are mature enough to face those consenquences that will come in married life. I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 28 already, were both stable in financial aspect, but we want to enjoy our life more as a single. I admit that at my age, I'm still acting like a teenager, that's the fact that I can't denied...lol('',)
@Cathzsmile (171)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
For me the perfect age would be 25, because we are mature enough to take the responisbility of being married to someone else. With regards to being childish, it also depends with the couple if they will adjust with each other and try to work it out in order for them to have a successful marriage.
@crossedx (72)
• Canada
23 Apr 07
i think its also choice as well as maturity. because once you get out of school, you'll be aroudn 20-30. that's when you get to experience the real world, where all the fun is at. but if you marry at an early age, you have so many responsiblities. you have to be devoted to the marriage and you'll have little time to experience other things. and if you want to start a family, everyday your main goal will be to make money so your family will be well off.
@chemicalh2 (627)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Their is no perfect age for marriage but there is a reason why women needs to get married before the age of 32 due to pregnancy complications. In the view of men, not getting married in the age above 30 is another story. It is said that they are having problems in identity or they are "gay".
Maturity is very essential in keeping the marriage and I guess being responsible is part of it as well as getting a stable job and the like.
@chesssy (203)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
when i was 15 or a bit younger, i always thought that i'll be ready to get married when i reach my 20's. i was so eager to be with my bf then that all these thoughts came to my mind, marrying, making things work. i'm turning 22 on friday and i feel that i am not ready to get married! it's really different when you're faced with the situation already.
my boyfriend and i decided that we'll get married when we're 27-28, when we have stable jobs and we can support ourselves and our future family. it helps that both of us have future plans and we are doing stuff that would help us in the future.