Moving on or Stuck Where you are?

@34momma (13882)
United States
April 22, 2007 10:06pm CST
Are you the type to move on from a bad situation or do you stay stuck in the moment?
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6 responses
• United States
23 Apr 07
I move on momma. There's no reason to dwell on something you obviously have no control over. Forget and forgive - or visa versa.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
23 Apr 07
moving on is key, but of course you have control over every situation. you are the solution to every problem. your mind is the solution. if you can think you have control. if you can feel then you have control. you are the solution. happen to life, don't let it happen to you. never give up or control to anyone or situation, be blessed
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
It depends on the situation actually, it's a case to case basis you know! ... I'm the type of person who sulk in so much to my problems most especially when it comes to family and heart matters so to speak. . . Its a time process, of course i move on from it but it takes time and effort before and i think that's just normal. (",)
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
23 Apr 07
sulking is not good. never ever allow your "problems to become bigger then you. find a solution and move on. when the problem is small the solutions are easier. always be bigger then your problems. and focus on the good outcome of every situation. just a tip, be blessed
@Stephanie5 (2946)
• United States
23 Apr 07
I move move move. But I need to stay put, but I just moved here and it SUCKS!!! My son's bike was stolen, people are very unfriendly, I don't know anyone here...It just sucks! I'm so ready to move but I have to wait till the kiddies get out of school so for right now, I'm STUCK in this STINKY town (literally it's stinky, there is a papermill here and it STINKS so freaking bad it will make you vomit)! I don't know what the heck I was thinking...ughhhhhhhh
@34momma (13882)
• United States
23 Apr 07
LOL! life is school, one lesson afte the other. when you look at it like that, then you tend to not be so hard on yourself. we learned the lesson we are suppose to at the time that we need to learn that lesson. you know what? you learn then move on!
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@Stiffler07 (1356)
• United States
23 Apr 07
No, I'm a person who likes to move on, however at my own time not when somone else wants me to. It's not good to stay stuck, because life don't stop for no one. (Good Question)
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
23 Apr 07
thanks stiffler. yes life will move on past you while you are stuck in a situation or mood that you can't get over. i am glad you are a mover on kind of guy
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
23 Apr 07
Hello,34moomma, when i was in a bad sitation, i would not get stuck there,I will try to find some ways to tackle with it and move on. Your situation is not getting better if you stat stuck in the moment, you must do something to get out of trouble.
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Im a "move on" person because you will not be able to grow as a person, as well as learn new things while you're still stuck in that situation. You have to move on.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
23 Apr 07
i know that's right. i too am a moving on kind of girl. I don't allow myself to be stuck in a situation or moment that is not going to help me