how would you drop a break-up word?
By djmarion
@djmarion (4898)
Philippines
6 responses
@biznizman01 (581)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
"there is no easy way to break somebodies heart" is a phrase i heard from a song. and its true.
just tell him straight and the reason why you would want a break up. there really is no other way.
@LadyFenix (110)
• United States
23 Apr 07
people who know me
know I don't like to
beat around the bush
if I want something I
get it one way or the other
and since I don't care what
people think I usually
say what's on my mind
I have had to drop that
ax a few times
and I have learned just
cutting the strings
is the best way to do it
less pain that way
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
There's no other way than to say it straight or lie. I'd prefer to do the first one. I know that it's never easy especially when you care about the person that you are breaking up with. But there is never an easy way to break a relationship with someone. No matter how you do it, it would still hurt. I think that you should just be honest so that the respect will be kept intact and there may be a possibility of a friendship after the break-up and the healing.
@sudeshna22 (390)
• India
23 Apr 07
I have not yet said this to anyone. If I would have to say this to some one I will try my best not be hard. I will speak in a soft and straight way. Because straightness is always good. The person will be able to know my mind if I become straight in these matters. That will be better for him to decide future steps.
@charlestchan (1415)
• Malaysia
23 Apr 07
haha.. i think it's very difficult to drop a break up word.. have you tried? last time, i just send a text message to break up.. i simply find an excuse so i can actually break up with the girl.. i think there's no point explaining in details why you're leaving her.. when there's no feeling.. you'll just have to leave.. don't you think so? it would be more unfair to stay with her when you don't love her anymore.. right? and you don't want to hurt her more in the future right? haha.. telling straight will hurt the person feeling.. and i think .. it's better not to be face to face.. it will make them feel embarassed =)