Family or friend
By eseomame
@eseomame (1146)
United States
12 responses
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
23 Apr 07
Depending on what it is, I usually tell my husband first, then my twin sister, then my best friend. If its a girlie thing then I tell my twin sister and best friend.
@laila675 (528)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Apr 07
i dont usually involve family and friends together. I mean if the problem accurs within my family i come to a family members that is close to me and within my friends therefore i come to a friend also. Coz confidenciality is important especially problems within family. It's not good to share other people or even your best friend a family matters, it might be a bit complicated.
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@coolmailraj (2460)
• India
23 Apr 07
Fortunately all of my family members are really good friends of mine so whenever something like that happens I can tell anyone of my friends or my family members about it and one thing more about them is that they are all very close to me and to each other too so there is no question of priority there.
@emjay9 (249)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
hmm it depends. when it's a family matter then i tell my family first. when it's something that my family won't understand i tell my friends first. but normally the frontliners in my list are my friends and my mom and sister. they are the first people to know something about me because i want to share with them my moment for i know that they will be there for me.
@eriennenadine (211)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Hmmm... come to think of it, it never even did cross my mind to tell those kind of stuff to my family. Whenever I want to share something with somebody, I would usually tell this to my girlfriend, who just happens to be my best friend. I'd talk about it, she would listen (she's not very talkative), and she would comment on it.
I guess I would find it very uncomfortable to share those kind of stuff with my family. My mom is so busy most of the time. She does make time for us, but we don't really talk about those kind of stuff. We talk more about our family business, and school, and my baby sister... that's it. I would feel very uncomfortable opening up to her. As for my baby sister... Well, you can't really open up to someone who can't even speak yet, can you? :)
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@magikrose (5429)
• United States
23 Apr 07
Other than my husband I tend to run right next door to my bestfriend and tell her. Then I would be onthe phone to my mother and the rest of my family and friends.
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@KissThis (3003)
• United States
23 Apr 07
For most of my life I have always told my Mom everything first. She is my best friend. There isn't anything that I can't share with my Mom. My partner comes in at a close second but I find that if I have a problem or need advice he isn't as understanding. He sees most things as black and white. Next is my brother. I can tell him most anything.
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@sheenshaukat (2617)
• Pakistan
23 Apr 07
A person should be called lucky enough if he or she got some real friends. If your family members are your friends then you are more lucky than others. Friendship is greatest relationship beneath the sun. A friend deserves to know all about me as he or she is my friend. My friend should as close to me as myself. So I would never hasitate to disclose my problem to him.
@sheenshaukat (2617)
• Pakistan
23 Apr 07
I want to add that "Our all relatives and family members are by chance, but our real friends are by choice."
@rodeotexas (1153)
• United States
23 Apr 07
Depends on what it is but I usually tell my husband.
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@pamilicious (265)
• Malaysia
23 Apr 07
i usually will tell my bestfriend first :-) i dont know why but thats how it's been for a long time. but during the days when i had a bf, i usually tell things to him first, then my bestfriend..by the way, my bestfriend IS a close member of my family
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