One-sided kind of love...is it more painful?
By lonely_f16
@lonely_f16 (2146)
Philippines
April 23, 2007 8:12am CST
Well for me it is. It's really tiring just to contemplate it. I mean, you get to feel those emotions and then your loved one doesn't..how do you get over it? They say that the medicine or solution for this is to find another one but could you forget that person without forcing yourself to love another? How could you do it? If you haven't experience it..you could have an example in case that you do experience it.
4 responses
@winkerf (44)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
of course.
if you're the only one loving in that kind of relationship, meaning your partner only is the receiver, then everything else is useless.
the sacrifice that you believe you are offering to your partner would be worthless. because it is not appreciated or even acknowledged.
it simply is unfair.
even though you said to yourself that what's important is that you are able to express your feelings towards your partner, it wouldn't budge. you just can't expect your partner to learn love by that matter.
so the hardest thing to do left is, let go.
@lonely_f16 (2146)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
yah i think you're really right..letting go is really very painful..but it's good enough to move on with our life..they say what doesn't break you, makes you stronger
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
23 Apr 07
Yes I believe that one sided kind of love is more painful, and I do believe that it is no use staying in a relationship when the love is not returned. You do have to get over it but only time will do this for us. It did happen to me when I was young and it took a long time to get over it and I moved to back home to my city and eventually found that I could fall in love again and that he loved me back.
@mlgb_24 (638)
•
27 Apr 07
the hardest thing to feel is loving somebody without that person ever knowing it. based on experience, i just let time heal my wound. and then out of the blue, when everything is at the right time and place, then you'll meet somebody worth your while. don't rush, i think you're still young. one-sided love is painful. don't torture yourself. you're an intelligent girl - don't be blinded by love. you deserve more than that. don't let it tear you down. i'm sure you'll outgrow that when the time is right.
@tony_thadhani (128)
• India
27 Apr 07
ya,i could understand wat u r feeling as i m also passing through a sme situation.......really one sided love hurts a lot but at the same time u cant even forget the one u love as when we r alone we cant stop thinking bout them......
