have you ever missed your first love?

@paywise (500)
Indonesia
April 23, 2007 8:24am CST
hi everybody... Last night, I've got a dream, a sweet dream actually. I've met with my first love, thats a beatifull dream. We toked around together, telling story each other... and bla...bla... Have you ever missed your first love?
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@carryli (875)
• China
26 Apr 07
Haw-haw,many people missed their first love.There is a word,"The first love is usually barren.But the first love is a great remember.
@paywise (500)
• Indonesia
26 Apr 07
Yeah, sure. How about you carryli? Do you still love him?
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
ofcourse i missed him, the laughters and jokes we shared, the problems and cries we had, the happy moments and crazy moments we had...but that just that. i missed him nothing more nothing less because i dont love him anymore.
@paywise (500)
• Indonesia
26 Apr 07
May I know why do you not love him anymore? But You still missed him. Is there any part of your heart about him?
@soulist (2985)
• United States
25 Apr 07
Actually I do miss my first love, mainly because we were really good friends before and after the relationship. He was a remarkable person and found someone great. But we drifted apart through the years.
@paywise (500)
• Indonesia
26 Apr 07
Really? thats good. I'm still get a dream with her, but our distance is so far. So, We cannot make a contact, cause where she lives is not be a phone.
@misdss (472)
• India
25 Apr 07
yeah i missed him a lot , sometimes i found that life without him like salty icecream.
@paywise (500)
• Indonesia
26 Apr 07
Yeah, I think so. Do you try to forget him?
@smartmom (826)
• United States
23 Apr 07
Yes, I have missed my first love on several occasions, but I think it is because we were best friends as well. I do not really believe in friendships with ex partners, as I think these will just complicate new relationships, but I do believe that there comes a point in time, where the intimate love feelings can be replaced by friendship, friendship love and caring. I think I have reached this point with my first love, but we are so far apart in distance that I do not think I will ever see him again. I am a happily married woman with two great kids, and I would not change this for anything in the world. In the weeks before I got married, I actually had lots of dreams about a few of my old boyfriends, and some of them were about how my life would be, if I were still with one of them. It was funny though, because in my dreams I always ended up concluding that my husband to be was the right one for me, and that although I cared for these old flames, it was more as a forever friends. At my wedding day I had no doubts, and I think I can thank these dreams for this confidence in my marriage to be.
@paywise (500)
• Indonesia
26 Apr 07
Well, It just a part of our love I guess, but I cannot forget her. When I make a relationship with the other, I allways compare with her. I know, its not fair, but why I do that? Could you tell me what I have to do?
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