have you ever missed your first love?
By paywise
@paywise (500)
Indonesia
5 responses
@prettylady9143 (238)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
ofcourse i missed him, the laughters and jokes we shared, the problems and cries we had, the happy moments and crazy moments we had...but that just that. i missed him nothing more nothing less because i dont love him anymore.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
25 Apr 07
Actually I do miss my first love, mainly because we were really good friends before and after the relationship. He was a remarkable person and found someone great. But we drifted apart through the years.
@smartmom (826)
• United States
23 Apr 07
Yes, I have missed my first love on several occasions, but I think it is because we were best friends as well. I do not really believe in friendships with ex partners, as I think these will just complicate new relationships, but I do believe that there comes a point in time, where the intimate love feelings can be replaced by friendship, friendship love and caring. I think I have reached this point with my first love, but we are so far apart in distance that I do not think I will ever see him again.
I am a happily married woman with two great kids, and I would not change this for anything in the world.
In the weeks before I got married, I actually had lots of dreams about a few of my old boyfriends, and some of them were about how my life would be, if I were still with one of them. It was funny though, because in my dreams I always ended up concluding that my husband to be was the right one for me, and that although I cared for these old flames, it was more as a forever friends. At my wedding day I had no doubts, and I think I can thank these dreams for this confidence in my marriage to be.