I'M IN LOVE WITH ANOTHER WOMANS MAN !!!!
By moomoo004
@moomoo004 (46)
Bermuda
October 20, 2006 3:21pm CST
Oh Well !!!!
My man was taking away from me by another woman 11 years into our relationship and that cut like a knife.
I am DEEPLY in love with another womans Man or should i say her Husband.
But we as best friends me and her husband, i love him like life.
but i am affraid if i tell him it will destroy our wonderful relationship. What do you think ???
2 responses
@chalmette69 (3007)
• United States
20 Oct 06
I can't believe you would even consider breaking up there home, I mean you didn't like it when someone did it to you, There are plenty of single men out there, why can't you find one of them? I think you should leave him alone and try and find someone else to fill your void, not another woman's husband.
@moomoo004 (46)
• Bermuda
21 Oct 06
obviously, you have never been in Love.....I did not wave a magic wand and say i WANTED to fall in love with him knowing he is married....you cannot tell your heart who to fall in love with just your mind. like i said WE are very very close, and were best friends when he did marry, its not like he is in a healthy marriage he is very unhappy and it hurts me to see him torn. i love him with all my heart and i KNOW HE WOULD BE HAPPIER WITH ME.....HIS TOLD ME SOOOOOO
@moomoo004 (46)
• Bermuda
21 Oct 06
AND I AM NOT FILLING A VOID, MY LOVE FOR THIS MAN IS REAL ITS NOT FAKE WE HAVE 7 YEARS INVESTED IN OUR FRIENDSHIP,
@chalmette69 (3007)
• United States
21 Oct 06
Please that is what all men say to woman they are having affairs with, Yes, I have been in love before, I am in love now, I have a wonderful husband and family, I guess you don't remember how it felt when it was done to you, if he is cheating on you with his wife, what makes you think he is not going to cheat on you with some one else, oh, I guess he told you so, please, are you living in a dream world? You may not be able to control who you fall in love with, but you can just say no, I mean I just don't think it is fair to break up someones family, it was done to me before and it hurts alot, I mean at least let him try to work on his marriage and then if it doesn't work out and he gets a divorce, than go for it, I just think you should let him at least end this and tell her the truth about not wanting to be with her, than for him to be sleeping with you both, he should at least end his marriage and give you both that respect, if he is so unhappy.
@courtlynne77 (4839)
• United States
21 Oct 06
I don't think that you should say anything to this man. As much as it may hurt to keep quiet I think that you should leave their relationship alone. They have a child together and they may think that their marriage is worth trying to work on based on that alone. He may tell you that you know him better than his wife, but would you really want to begin a relationship with a man who would betray his wife in this way? Who is going to become his "best friend" if you become his wife? Also, if they have a child together and you are the reason their marriage breaks up you will have deal with this woman for as long as you are together.
@moomoo004 (46)
• Bermuda
21 Oct 06
you do make sence and i appreciate what your saying, but i cannot just leave him alone his very special to me and honestly he really is a big part of my life, i feel complete talking to him daily if i dont see or hear from him i feel lost.
@moomoo004 (46)
• Bermuda
21 Oct 06
i am not trying to force anything.
but i understand what ya saying
to leave him alone would be a very difficult thing to do and truthfully i dont think i /we could do that. i want to be in his life and him in mine forever, we share lot of history and i care wayyyyy to much to just let my best friend go because he has a miserable marriage ...sorry !!!!
@courtlynne77 (4839)
• United States
21 Oct 06
I think that it is fine to be his friend. If his marriage breaks up for reasons that have nothing to do with you then you could be together with a clear mind, knowing that you didn't force anything to happen.
