What do I say to her? She loves me but I don't!!

First of all, it isn't her fault for loving you. I don't know if that's what you meant when you said 'why do people get involved in love before knowing thatthe other side is involved too." But she feel in love with you because of who she see's in you. You can't blame and question her love for you :) You should be honored that someone loves you. Having said that, you can not lie to her. Maybe in time you will grow to love her, but dont try to force your feelings, and don't lie to her.

Its hard to tell a person that you dont love them especially when you know how much they feel for you.But it is more painful if you are going to make them fool and make them believe that the feeling is mutual. Honesty is the best policy. Just tell her in the nice way. Okay? Goodluck!

I remember a line from a song that says, break it to me gently..hehe(just kidding) but I think that is what you are going to do. If you can't love her for real then better tell her how exactly you feel about her. Sometimes, given such love in which you can't reciprocate is annoying and will just lead you to hate yourself and get yourself into trouble. I think she will understand as to why you can't or you are not in love with her. I admire you scapula for bringing this out. Now, I know why she have fallen for you. You are such a sensible person. Someone who doesn't take advantage. I hope you two will maintain the friendship.

Nop , dont try to love her , coz love is not something we try to have , it just happens , if you wasn't in love with her when she told you that she loves you , then you willn't love her ,,, you might love the feeling of being loved , it is a great feeling , but you will not love her .. so if you dont wanna hurt her , just dont do anything and tell her honstly that you are not attractedto her and leave her .. even if she still loves you , you can't do anything .. and you shouldn't

Damn I can actually relate to that girl :( anyway I hope this could help you 1.)What should I do? Talk to her one on one. Just you and her in a quiet place [where you two are alone] this might help her to be calm and where you can comfortably tell her anything. Watch your words my dear, girls are very very sensitive. They're most vulnerable in this kind of situation. 2.)I have to tell her the truth? Yes, a lie can hurt a woman's heart 1000x times rather than hearing that she was dumped. 3.)Why do people get involved in love knowing that the other side is involved too or not? I kinda felt guilty about it. lmao, anyway we can never blame anyone for being involved to someone who's already been involved. Love works mysteriously, you don't know when or where you'll get caught by it. Hope I'd help you :)

This is a strange situation for me, i really tried it once before, but i didn't deel correctly with, i just ran away and never faced her with the truth. i think that the best way is to tell the truth, but some people (such as me) can't do it.

if you don't love her, care about her enough to let her know. The worst feeling in the world is sitting there thinking that someone loves you and then realizing they don't. You feel betrayed, lied to, and everything. So the best thing to do is to just tell her the truth. She'll understand if she doesn't already at the time you tell her. And she'll be happier knowing that you cared enough to tell her the truth. I hope this helps, and i hope eventually you can work things out. If you don't already love her, don't try, because it's not going to work. I'm sorry for the situation your in it just sucks to be there.

If you don't love her, you need to tell her the truth. Don't mislead her into thinking you love her, because if you do that and then you tell her you don't love her, you run a very real risk of hurting her deeply. No matter when you tell her, it's going to hurt anyway, but misleading her will make it much much worse. You don't have to try to love her. Trying to force yourself to love her won't work. It'll just put unnecessary pressure on you to make things work, and inevitably, it will fail.

if you can love her in return, then try love her but if you cant really after trying so hard to love her back..then you must tell her the truth. because you are being so unfair with the gal you know. you are going to hurt her deeply if she'll find it in other way like if other people will tell her. just be honest, you may hurt her by telling the truth yeah but it is best to hear from you than form anybody else..right.

look man u should tell her the truth and the best way for that is the direct way by telling her that u cant love her not because she is bad or something else but because u cant. and if she is really love u she will not being hurted and she will understand ur openion. by the way if u cant love her i sure that u can stay a best friend. with all of myt love

Tell her the truth

By all means tell her that you don't love her. One of the cruelest things one person can do to another is to lead them on. Try and let her down gently, but make it clear that there can't be a love relationship between the two of you.

You better keep your relationship going on as usual, because we won't always notice the finest thing beside ourselves. Observe and try talking to her, you might dig out something special from her.

i think if you don't love her just let her know and let everything comes to an end earlier. don't cheat yourself and try to love someone that you have no feeling at all. of course it'll hurt her at some degree, but it's for her good, if you don't love her but just deceive yourself and try to ,it'll hurt both of you. i think she'd understand if you refused her love. if she is truely love you, she'd wish you can live a happy life!

Love is something that u have no power over. You fall in love with one person without really wanting it, and you can never be forced to love someone. I think it is better for you to be honest with her, instead of trying to love her, IN the end you will not be successful and more time that passes, the more hurt she will become... Sorry but I really belive so,

Maybe you're afraid to love her because of what has probably happened to you in the past. Don't be afraid. If you don't love like you've never loved before and let go of the past, your relationships will never work out.

if she is a good person and she cares about you, then you better love that person, accept her for what she is, if you don't love her, just tell her the truth, not jump into conclusion to hurt her feelings just tell her the truth little by little that you just love her not too seriously.

loving someone that who doesn't love you is really hard. i suggest that yo tell her the truth because the truth will set you free as an old saying said. by telling her the truth will make her realized the real situation. some people are assuming. what i mean by this is that some people will think that the person they like like them too since they are nice to him/her but in trut they are not. they are just being friendly. the perso who loves you might be one of them so you better tell her ASAP than making the matters worst.

yeah i think u should tell her if u r sure u wont love her!coz really it's hard 2 be in love with someone who dont love u!maybe now she think eno u can love her some day so she will keep loving u ,so tell her and let her forget ...or without sayin anything u can just tell her by ur way in treating her !!

I would just like to ask if you had tried opening your mind and heart for her? If you do, then still it doesn't work, I think you should tell her the truth than showing her your fake feelings and making her believe that you really do and care for her a lot. You, guys should know how to express your true feelings no matter how painful and heart breaking it would be. Its better being hurt at a moment rather than feeling good without noticing that after all you were being hurt since from the very start. Good Luck! Cheers!