is it love?
By zer0charly
@zer0charly (5614)
Philippines
April 23, 2007 10:35pm CST
1.are your palms sweaty,is your heart racing?and your voice caught within your chest?it isn't love,it's LIKE.
2.you can't keep your hand off them,am i right?it isn't love,its LUST.
3.are you proud and eager to show them off?it isn't love,it's LUCK.
4.do you want them because you know they're there?it isn't love,it's LONELINESS.
5.are you there because it's what everyone wants?it isn't love,its LOYALTY.
6.Do you stay for their confessions of love,because you dont want to hurt them?it isn't lvoe,its PITY.
7.are you there because they kissed you,or held your hand?it isn't love,its LACK OF CONFIDENCE.
8.do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?it isn't love,its INFATUATION.
9.do you tell them that everyday they are the one you think of?it isn't love,its a LIE.
10.are you willing to give up all your favorite things for their sake?it isn't love,its CHARITY.
11.do you pardon their faults because you care about them?it isn't love,its FRIENDSHIP.
12.do you accept their faults because it's part of who they are?then its LOVE.
13.do you cry for their pain,even when they're strong?then its LOVE.
14.do their eyes see your true heart,and touch your soul so deeply,it hurts?then its LOVE.
15.do you stay because blinding incomprehensible mix of pain,and elations pulls you close and hold you?then it's LOVE.
16.are you attracted to others but stay with them faithfully with no regrets?then it's LOVE.
17.AND ALWAYS REMEMBER--LOVE ISNT ONE SIDED..BOTH MUST LOVE FOR LOVE TO EXIST!now..is there any signs that you are inlove?
7 responses
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
18 Dec 07
this is a good one :) hehe.. Love and lust belongs to separate worlds but charity and love, is really hard to tell or explain.. We can always hear ple saying cna give up everything in the world just to be with u.. But is that charity or is that true love?? When we really does that, ple or relatives or frenz will say we are stupid.. But are we really stupid??
U are right that love involves both sides and only those in a relationship sees it best.. WAtever a 3rd party says, it's only their opinion and decision is for u or me to make.. And b4 any decisions, wat's most important is that, there will be no regrets in that decision for, THE ONE U LOVED IS DEFINITELY WORTH IT :)
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
14 Jan 08
Yep.very well said.I agree with you.
-keep on responding!
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
14 Jan 08
yeah.we all need to feel pain for us to feel real love.
-keep on responding!
@satansoldat_666 (412)
• Philippines
4 Dec 07
Yes..........Love is a two way street. There should be a give and take relationship.........cause no matter how much u love the person and the person just spits on ur face like what many have done to me.........then u would just be nothing more but a foolish idiot trying to score a bullseye hit....REal Love, or what we call Satanic love..... is not single sided nor self flaggelating........it is love combined with reason...........if the person u love is a total a** no matter how much u loved the person.........then forget it
Satan is about love to those deserving than love wasted on ingrates- Anton LaVey
@neethucool (357)
• India
7 Dec 07
" 9" Best movements in life ..
1,Lying in the bed ,listening to the rain outside
2,Thinking about the person you love
3, Taking a long driving on a calm road
4, A sweet & emortional converstion
5, Finding Money in your old jeans just when you needed
6,Giggling Naughtily..
7,Holding hands with your dear for a walk
8, Getting a hug from some one who care the most,
9, the movements when your eyes are filled with tears after a big laugh
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
14 Jan 08
wow!i love what you've wrote in there.
-keep on responding.
@neethucool (357)
• India
7 Dec 07
Not a one signs all signs similar to love ..cant tell ,love is a friendship love is a confidence love is a luck , dependce upon person , who is taking care of you the the person is all in your life , especialy some loving sincerly means wht problem each & every problem you can share with his/her we remember also taht person first after taht only all are come ..thats the speciality of the love ,
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
18 Dec 07
yeah..very well said.I agree with you.
-thanks for responding!
@charlestchan (1415)
• Malaysia
24 Apr 07
wow.. where do you get all these? friendster? myspace? i think i've seen it somewhere before.. and yes.. there are some truth in it.. we do know how to differentiate between love and like.. i'm just aware that we can like many. but we can only love one.. so the one we love is the one most special to us.. in any way we try to view them.. they're still special to us.. right? .. erm.. i didn't involve in any two sided relationship yet.. and it's really hurt to hear you sayign that love is not one sided.. why not? why can't i love someone when i know i just love her? love does not have to be in 2 way communication.. the word love itself means the feelings you developed.. and not both developed =_=
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
i do got that on www.lovefatedestiny.com..check that website,they do have love stories that will touch your heart..i swear!,and also they have,love quotes,and love tips..
u write it down there that you havent involve in a two sided relationship?how come?don't you have any past relationship..?i believe that a relationship should be in a give and take process..and that's the time that we called our love,2 sided..hhmm..just wondering though..hehe!
but that's your opinion..i can do nothing about it..
