IS IT ALWAYS THE THE MAN WHO PAY THE bills????

Philippines
April 24, 2007 1:48am CST
is it always your man who pay the bills in home or when you go out or when he needs to buy something??? Post your opinion, Is the word "gentleman" still exist when paying bills or when it comes to money??? even if he still courting you, is he always the one to pay the bills when you go out???
3 responses
crazy_me
@crazy_me (588)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
No, my boyfriend does not pay for everything. That is because I do not want him to. For me, the guy should always be the one to pay during the courtship period. But when you are already officially a couple, the bill should sometimes be split. Allowing the bill to be split does not make the guy an ungentleman, in my opinion. It just shows that he respects the girl's decision.
dineskie
@dineskie (155)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
No! Maybe next time he'll ask for a payment. Women should not abuse men besides being a gentleman is not only considered if he pays the bills. There are many factors to be called a gentleman.
sloanjosiecat79
@sloanjosiecat79 (299)
• United States
24 Apr 07
i think it depends on what the couple mutally decides upon. the guy could still be a gentleman if the woman pays if that's what she wants, or even if they take turns paying.