What makes you decide to add me as your friend?
By jencai
@jencai (3412)
Philippines
April 24, 2007 2:07am CST
Good day to all of my friends and other MyLot members!
As I check the list of my friends, I have noticed that the number has grown in just 4 weeks. I wonder what makes you decide to add me as one in your friends list? Does anyone have any criteria for doing so?
In my part, I send a friend's invitation whenever I found a member really interesting and with good values.
How about you? Please share your comments here.
Have a nice day everyone!
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21 responses
@mikeyr6000le (2123)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I too wonder why someone wants to add me as a friend. I don't see the point of the list other then bragging rights for a high number.
Yes, I know some people do respond to their friends topics and all that good stuff. That's fine but I usually don't do that because the olny reason people want to add me is because of that. That to me is not a "friend" but just someone to use. I haven't seen any of my "friends" respond to any of my topics.
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@Woodpigeon (3710)
• Ireland
24 Apr 07
I use more or less the same criteria as you do. If I think someone's discussions or replies are interesting I like to add them as a friend.
If I receive a friend request I usually accept everyone, although I will be doing a spring clean soon as there are a number of people who I have added as friends and responded to their discussions but they haven't responded to mine.
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@robert19ph (4577)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
I have added you as because you are my countrymates and your responses are very good. Good evening my friend.
@Augustta (1850)
• Poland
25 Apr 07
First of all you reply to my post and in this way i "know you".
I never will say stop to having friends.
A friend is a gift,and just the notion of "friendship"make me happy and secure...
Let alone the fact you replied to me,but i looked in your posts and all is great...and your avatar too...
many hugs,
augusta
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@CaroleeKaufold (1853)
• United States
24 Apr 07
your posts had a lot to do with why I asked you to be my friend!
@operationcwal (188)
• Malaysia
25 Apr 07
Only if you consider me as your friend too.
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
anyone who sends me request to be a friend, i had no second thoughts of accepting him/her because i am here to make friends. mylot is not only an earning money program but a friendship site. for me, you are all welcome.
@nampoothiripad (601)
• India
24 Apr 07
It is said that a friend in need is a friend indeed. In sense I can not be your friend. In Sanskrit the word "friend" means "Suhrithu" which means a person having a good heart. In that Mylot friends can be your friend.
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@woyaofly (61)
• China
24 Apr 07
maybe you have the same hobby or he or she feel you a good person and like to be a friend of yours,through the word you have said, i guessed that you must be the person who like to make friends,am i rihgt,would you like to be a friend of mine, i am waiting you approve me!
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@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
It's a pleasure to know that you're inviting some you found really interesting. its might be a start of creating a good friendship. And me too, often send invitations same as what you did.
I think, there's no criteria for adding someone here in mylot. It's just the thing that you like and feel to add him/her or not. Sometimes, impression plays an important role in this kind.
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
I add some and delete some, sort of mixing and matching. I prefer to have friends that can help me post quality discussions, because I think you already know that I'm more of a responder. I delete those who are not active for a long time, and those whom are not providing me more more quality postings. I also delete those who try to flood my friends' discussion lists with irrelevant, nonsense topics. Because I don't want my performance here to suffer, and I try to avoid to those types of postings too..
@sick4muzick (816)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
Hi Jencai. I like you and I can relate to some of your posts. Also we are from the same place and it makes me feel at home to have friends like you. You are really nice to answer back on responses to your discussions. I'm sorry I haven't been dropping in to your discussions lately. I've got some technical problems that makes me unable to be online for long. Thanks and have a great day.
@mikaelalexis (399)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
i added you because i saw you started a great post, because i wanted you to add up to my network of friends, because the more friends responded to your post the more earnings you got. but most of all, i added you because i really wanted to be a friend to you. will that makes sense to you why i added you to my friends circle?
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