Breaking up because I am 1% NOT NICE?
@wondericequeen (7876)
Hong Kong
12 responses
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
•
24 Apr 07
we are all individuals, unique in our own special ways. We do not come with a pick and mix personality but rather as a whole package. It is important in any relationship that we are accepted for who we are and not for who the other person would want us to be. If this is not the case, one of any couple must become less of a person if the relationship is to continue
this can never be a good thing
blessed be
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@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
24 Apr 07
I totally agree that we come as a package! Right, we do need two happy "individuals" to form a happy relationship. Otherwise, things might deteriorate any time in the future anyway. Right, I guess I have no loss here then.
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@3r7sweetie (937)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
If your boyfriend has set a standard for you and can't accept you for who you really are then you better let go. This kind of guy is not worthy of your love at all. He doesn't deserve a nice one like you and you don't deserve a jerk like him. There's so many guys out there who's so much better than he is and who deserves more of your love and affection. So move on, girl! A person truly in love accepts the other completely, all of the other's characteristics, and I mean all - that includes the darker side of the person, or the unpleasant personalities one has.
@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
24 Apr 07
Yes I definitely want someone that would accept me as ME, the nice me, the sad me and the crazy me too! I just find it so hard to believe the 99% of niceness won't even be able to cover up the 1%. Well, nevermind, I will move on and might change myself to 99% of non-niceness and 1% of niceness *laughs*.
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
If a person loves you, he accepts your whole being, 100%. He also accepts that LIKE HIM, you are human. And there is no perfect human being. Only God is perfect. If believes that he can't deal with you being a human being like him, then he probably believes that love is only a superficial thing. Something that isn't meant to last a lifetime. That's the kind of love that isn't worth keeping.
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@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
24 Apr 07
*laughs*, I realized he is a human being but he must have thought that I possessed some supernatural power or something. Anyway, you are right, it can't last. I mean if he over-reacts on that 1%, it doesn't really how nice and how loving I was/am.
@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
24 Apr 07
Your words and your cute kittie avatar sure cheers me up! Right, thanks and goodbye - what would be more appropriate than that?
@moonlitpriest (293)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
I guess, woder ice queen, that BF you are saying does not love that woman after all, because when you love someone, you will accept the whole of him/her. his bright side and as well as the darker side. they said that love can conquers all!, even if the girl has a dark side (everyone has a darkside) the guy can accept it, if he really loves the girl
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@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
24 Apr 07
He told me love conquer all too but I guess this is not really the case for us. Yes, everyone has a darker side and everyone should be celebrated in their own ways.
@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
24 Apr 07
Thanks. I guess he is trying to help me realize what I did wrong by sounding cold and pushing me to pop the breakup phrase. *laughs* Thanks, what you said was very true though.
@altair_dip (807)
• India
24 Apr 07
u cant measure niceness.... adn the thing that botheres ur Boyfriend is so important to him then be it.. u both have to find ur own ways.. its best for both of u..
@CinderInMySoul (4717)
• United States
24 Apr 07
did he use those words? the 1% not nice part?
if so then it sounds like he was looking for a way out of the relationship...and latched onto a pretty pathetic one at that.
chalk it up to experience...it was definatly NOT love.
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@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
24 Apr 07
No, he hasn't used the words but I just wanted to sum up the whole incident and that's why I put the phrase up in the title (that's all I could use to describe). It surely does "look" pathetic.
@sallyxu126 (1184)
• China
24 Apr 07
I think it is not love.
if he love you very much, he will not see the 1% not nice.
even if he see ,he will disregard it.
do be sad about that always.
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@fjordz (66)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
i think your boyfriend didnt really love you for love dont see any mistakes nor negativities..
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@dozenbiz (88)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
If you love someone you have to practice loving her in her heart if she is genuine. As human, you may sometimes commit mistakes but it's not a big deal to me because when I feel in love what I see is her heart and not her faults. If 1% error on you is a big deal to him, I can't imagine anymore if your mistakes escalated to 10% I'm sure you will suffer physically. Beware to humans who can't afford to love your 1% mistake, better have a friend like dog.
