Which will you choose? The one who LOVES YOU or The one YOU LOVE?
@gauche_benros (6)
Philippines
13 responses
@tajinder_18 (324)
• Malaysia
24 Apr 07
i experienced this before.i loved another guy for a year.but i never dare to tell him.because i know he would not accept me.we used to treat each other like more to siblings.
then finally one day i chose to give up on him.then another guy appeared.i accepted him since he loves me.i am sure he loves me.so of course he would never do things to hurt me and treat me nice.
that time i didn't love him yet.but day by day i started to have some feelings for him since he treated me so good.i started to love him.we were so happy.our relationship lasted for over a year.
then he went to overseas to study.so we involved in a long distance relationship.it was so hard.so we broke up 6 months ago.after i broke up with him i knew that the other guy do have feelings for me too for over a year.
but we just never tell each other.because we are in different states although in same country.so it still kinda hard to meet each other.we never hope any commitment from each other.when i started relationship with another guy he started with another girl too.
but he broke up with his girlfriend earlier than my case.but we still never start any relationship after being single back again.it is because i am gonna go another states to study in university.so it would be very far.so i think better he find another girl.
so i asked him to gave up on me and find another girl.it was meant to be we do not have any fate for being each other.besides i still cannot forget my ex even it already pass 6 months.i do not think i would be able to forget him for the rest of my life
@gauche_benros (6)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
that is so true.. I think he did get a piece of your heart already which you can't return anymore..
@gauche_benros (6)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
yeah..but there is also a saying that you can't teach your heart to love, ryt?
@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
I have been in the similar situation before and I CHOSE THE ONE THAT I LOVE WHO LOVES ME THE MOST.
@prettylady9143 (238)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
whewwwwwww!!!! a difficult one hehehheh. ummnnnnnnnn..let me think, i like to choose the one i love but then it would not make me happy because the he doenst love me. if ill choose the one who loves me, i will not be happy also but only for a little while...because i believe that love grows when you see and feel how much the man loves you, one day you'll find out that youre also in love with the one who loves you because youre together everyday and he showers you with so much love and respect and understanding and did surprises etc. so if the man who loves me is like that...i guess i'll choose the one who loves me.
@bambi_81 (28)
• United States
24 Apr 07
That would be a hard situation to be in and would be a hard choice. Although alot of people seem to think that you should choose the person that loves you but you don't love so you don't have to worry about being hurt. Being with someone just b/c they care about it is not always enough and not fair to the person that has strong feelings for you. They say go with the one that loves you so you don't have to worry about being hurt but what about that person's feelings?? Love is always worth the risk even if it means you might get hurt it is better to follow your heart and risk being hurt than never knowing how things might have worked out.
@uu4h708 (638)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
id choose the latter, but then again, it will depend on the situation and circumstances.. if the person you love but doesnt love you back gives you at least a hope that there is still a chance for the two of you, then you'd have to choose him/her.. but if the person who loves you but you dont love is the only person who ever understands, cares and loves you without asking for anything in return, then he's something.... something worth trying... who knows., you might end up loving him too..
@cyrile07 (236)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
for me I will choose the person who love me who i dont actually love, why??? because i am the type of person who can easily fall in love with someone who takes care of me dearly and who will be there for me always and will love me for who I am... love can be developed so i go for the one who love me so much... :)
@chenvstony (365)
• China
24 Apr 07
I think I will choose the one who loves me.He will think everything for me.
@little_angel (2458)
• Australia
24 Apr 07
That is a difficult situation.
I will get happy if i choose the one i love but i have to take care of him and be with him, never make him sad or leave me.
But if i choose the one who love me then i just need to learn to love him.
Hmmmm let me think a while...
I will take a risk by choose the one i love
@mailovee (265)
• China
24 Apr 07
I hope I wont in this situation for ever,really want someone we love each other.if I have to make a decision ,I will choose the one I love,only this way I can feel happy, spend my whole life with someone I dont love is really a terrible thing,I dare not imagine that.
