The long winded people...
By mahmah
@mahmah (436)
United States
April 24, 2007 10:14am CST
You ask someone a question a simple yes or no question and it turns into a explanation of my their daughter caused their aunt that caused them to cause the....Do I need to keep going? You get the point right. There is this one lady in my office that I never ask a question of her because she can never say yes or no, it is atleast a 15 minute conversation. How would you handle a person like this? I don't want to be rude, but things tend to come out of my mouth this way. How do you get a long winded person to just say yes or no? This really isn't someone I can avoid...
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@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
24 Apr 07
Sometimes, the only way is to cut them off & say, "Yes or no" is sufficient. If it's someone at work, I do wonder if they did that at the interview, as it's someone I would add close to the bottom of my list of candidates, basically because someone like that would annoy the heck out of other co-workers trying to get things done or with a deadline to meet. Also, how much work does this person get done while busy giving long-winded answers instead of saying yes or no & then getting back to work?
I actually cannot think of any wasy way to gently approach directly. If you really trust the confidentiality of your supervisor, maybe talk to that person. Let the supervisor handle it.
@mahmah (436)
• United States
25 Apr 07
See that is the problem. No one here wants to do or say anything to these people. I have gone to my supervisor (and on occassion her's) and she just tells me to stop worrying about other people and there is nothing that can be done. It aggitates me because if it were me I would be put in my place. I love my job but I hate the people. LOL
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@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
1 May 07
From experience, the only time to be long-winded is right here on MyLot. It seems that long-winded discussions & responses does earn more money, as long as it is good quality.