Confused about Love... have you ever feel this way?
By net_chick
@net_chick (103)
Philippines
April 24, 2007 10:18am CST
Me and my boyfriend been together for 7 years... I feel that I'm losing my love for him... Before I am really crazy about him. Could that be? or I am just sad 'coz things aren't the same like beforelike when he surprises me and do sweet stuffs for me... I can't break up with him 'coz i know I'll only break him... what makes it worst is that, he asked me to marry him and I couldn't say no for an answer.. Now, I made it much more complicated. I'm really confused and I can't find myself. If I don't love him, why can't I break up with him? If I love him, why do I feel that he doesn't treat me right and I feel that there someone much better for me out there somewhere? OMG I'm really confused... Mylotters I need your help
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
24 Apr 07
Just do a separation for a while. Tell him you need some time to think about everything. Give yourself a month. If in a months time things don't change and you aren't happy. Then its time to move on. If you marry him and you are not happy, it will end up in divorce eventually anyways. Give your self a break to think it over.
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@net_chick (103)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
thanks I think I really need time to think things over, but I just find it hard to tell it to him.. but I will try.. thanks!!!
@skbadhan (879)
• India
25 Apr 07
if you have so long relation now its a time of happy ending to marry and you are very much confussed i think you should take some time as its a matter of two lives and if ur'nt feeling happy firstly try to fine out the reasons why you are doutful and what is the strong reason for u to get doubted. then try to find out some solution as every problem has solutionif u are ready to solve it as its matter of ur life so plz don't opt for short term solution . do talk to ur boy friend directly about ur feeling he might give u some explanation. about his behavior still u feel he is chesting u and u can't be happy with him i think there is no need to take a chance
@net_chick (103)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
ok hearing it from a guy,I finally am getting some strength to talk to him. I hope my courage remains like this when I face him. Thanks ;)
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