what does it mean if your ex-boyfriend keeps on coming back to you?

Philippines
April 24, 2007 11:47am CST
what does it mean if your ex-boyfriend keeps on coming back to you? but he has a new girlfriend already. acting as if he still owns you.
4 responses
• Saudi Arabia
6 May 07
he acts like he owns you???any guy who acts as if any girl is his property or ownership should be b!tch hslapped.but anyway, if he already broke up with you but is still hounding you..whats his deal?my guess is, he's either regretting he let you go or, plain and simple, he isnt over you just yet.i mean, why would he even keep coming back and act possesive if he's already got a new girl right?the question is, what are you doing about it?try and see if he's still got felings for you.coz if he does....it would answer a lot of your questions.but then again, do you still have feelings for him?here's a guy who, after breaking up with you and (how many girlfriends has he had after you, if i may ask?) getting a new girl, is still hounding you and acting like HE is your boyfriend (if i may asume that you have no current boyfriend), would you still want to get back with him? but anyway, goodluck to you
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
it means he's selfish...he doesnt want u to move on..he doesnt want to think that u're over him coz it would make him fell a lesser man. well, if that's d case, u gotta show him that u have forgotten him by ignoring him. better yet, dont pretend that u have moved on, but do it...
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
25 Apr 07
Probably means he doesn't want to let you go or that he's feeling guilty that he has, or that he thinks he can have his cake and eat it too!!. I would tell him to bugger off since he had the nerve to go out and find himself another girlfriend and tell him that he doesn't own you either. Tell him to leave you alone, unless its what you want?!?
• United States
24 Apr 07
Well this could mean one or more things. The first that comes to mind is that you are truely the one for him and he is just afraid of staying or being with you too long because he is afraid of commitment. The next option my sound harsh but it is a possibility. Simply stated, you are easy. You are a sure thing that he keeps just in case something in one of his other relationships is not going his way. Another option is that he is a super controling individual who (again kinda harsh) found and easy target. In this situation, you would be the proverbial door mat, the person that always makes him feel dominating when he is around you. Solution, saddly, even though you might truly love this person, is to leave them. You will never be truly happy around or with them because you will always be waiting for him to come or go. He will always be using you no matter how sweet he seems at times or how good looking he is. Be your own woman, a strong woman, and leave your past behind you.