I'm in loved of my best friend's boyfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What I should do?

Romania
April 24, 2007 1:41pm CST
I don't know how it happended but I fall in love of my best friend's boyfriend and I don't know what to do.Should I fight for my feelings or should I try to forget about this imposible love and to respect my friendship?Please I do need an advise!
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@colega17 (312)
• Romania
26 Apr 07
Oooooops ! That doesn't sounds too good . Gaby you have a problem . . . you fall in love too easy . About your question now . . . I think you should reflect on what you have to do . Try to see if you really love your friend's boyfriend because maybe is just a short attraction , something insignifiant . But anyway even if you are in loved with him or not you shouldn't fight for his love . It wouldn't be fair because that means to betray your friend . Choosing him leads to loosing your friend so think twice about what will you do . . . Does he really deserve this sacrifice ? Think about this . . .
@jwfarrimond (4473)
24 Apr 07
Does he have feelings for you as well? I think that what you do really depends on that. If he returns your love, then I'd say go for it. You might lose a friend, but you might gain much, much more.
• United States
24 Apr 07
You never go for a best friends boyfriend Even if she dumps him! You will completely ruin the friendship between you and your friend. Friendships last love comes and goes. So if you want to lose your best friend go after the guy If you want to keep your best friend stay away from the guy and find someone else
• United States
24 Apr 07
I guess that would just depend on what kind of friend you are. If you really care about this friend you will just keep your feelings to yourself.. If it's meant to be it will eventually be. one man is not worth losing a good friendship over. Like the other post said he may soon be free, and then you won't be hurting your friend. Have a blessed day..
• Canada
24 Apr 07
You should respect your friendship. If you "fought for your feelings" it wouldn't make you a very good Best Friend. Feelings change, and most boyfriends come and go, but a good friend can be hard to find! You never know he might end up free, and your friend won't mind you dating him.