What do you do when you love a girl but cant say?
@hackerbreaker (66)
Turkey
April 24, 2007 2:07pm CST
of course there is someone who we love him/her.
but there must be a way to say them that we love them
i am in that situation now:(
i cant say her i love her
i am very afraid ..
if she goes out with another one
i kill myself:(:(:(
2 responses
@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
24 Apr 07
Man, I found myself in this situation some days ago. I know how it feels, I love this girl more than my own life.
Well, actually, I was afraid of telling her. It'd be crazy, but I had to try...
If you feel it is the time, you can use my method: self-promess. Do something like this: "If I don't tell her that I love her tomorrow, I'll pay 1.500 flexions and run xx kilometers". If you don't tell her, you must pay.
Well, let me tell you what happened to me when I said that: she got red, I am pretty sure her heart also accelerated. Then, she said she doesn't love me that much, only as a friend. And that's it. It didn't break our friendship. You'll be proud of yourself if you say it.
Anyway, make sure you know what to tell her. Think a lot about it, about what are you going to talk. Then, make your own promess, take a deep breath and go for it!
Look, I think now I have more chances of staying with her. Somehow, I know she now feels that I am really loving her. And she might give me a chance if I ask. But this is another story, I don't want to risk this one yet. I'll approach her first.
Well, good luck!
Hope to have helped!
Keep me informed, ok?