Would you want to know if your partner had fantasies about some one else?

United States
April 24, 2007 3:01pm CST
Would you feel unfaithful if you had frequent fantasies about someone other then your partner? If your partner were having such fantasies, would you want to know about it?
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@misste78 (539)
• United States
24 Apr 07
No, I don't feel unfaithful. It is what you said a fantasy. To the second part, yes I would want to know if my partner is having fantasies. I would then 1. be able to tell him about my fantasies. 2. make his fantasies a reality in some sorts, while he make mines a reality. Sexy and slick huh!!! Now you know what he's really thinking.
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@Modestah (11179)
• United States
30 Apr 07
no, I would not want to know. His sins are between him and God... I do not want to know at all! it would also devastate me and affect my trust and sense of security. It would really damage our marriage.
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@Modestah (11179)
• United States
17 May 07
thank you for marking my reply as the best response.
@Stiffler07 (1356)
• United States
26 Apr 07
I don't believe I would want to know details, however I might want to know who. We like to role play, it's our little secret. So, I don't think I would be too mad. It's really not much to worry about in my opinion. 34Momma loves her some me:-) .... (Great Question)
@mmiller26 (1930)
• Canada
3 May 07
If it were a celebrity or somebody that I didn't know, then I probably wouldn't have a problem with it. After all, my fantasies are usually faceless people that I don't know. But if my guy were to be like "you know that lady next door? Man, she's so hot, I just want to bonk her brains out"...well, I might have to hit him. Hard. lol
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
Sometimes i feel like id rather not knowing it than to knowing it and make me hurt once in a while. And if ever it will might be just a cause of our arguments and i really dont like it to happen.
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@silverf0x (125)
• Indonesia
19 May 07
I think I want to know about my girl's fantasies, even I know maybe that will hurt me if I am not involved in her fantasies. But I hope that all my girl's fantasies about me.....