What do you do after ACCEPTING FRIEND'S REQUEST?

erm.. first of all, i get approximately about 2 - 3 friends a day.. not to brag.. but i realy thank them for sending request to me.. usually.. i wiill message them after accepting the request.. i want to make real friend with them.. i ask them if i can contact them using messenger or not.. many didn't reply me.. i think it's because they're too into mylot.. and they refuse to chat in messenger..well.. i don't know.. i heard we go get earning if we reply messages from friends too.. wow.. that's cool... sometimes.. when you have too many friends.. it's really difficult to reply their discussion.. isn't it? do you think so too?

hi! most of the time, friend requests come from mylot users who have either responded to one of my discussions or those who have started discussions i responded to before. if this is the case, i would approve the request readily without visiting their profile. because i would have already visited their profile page before--- that would be why i would remember certain mylot users. for those i am not familiar with, i visit their profile page first. but i would approve them anyway. i've never disapproved friend request before. ;) when i go to the profile page of a mylot user or new friends in my list, i would check out how long he/she has been with mylot. then i would also look at the discussions he started as well as the best responses he/she has received. if there are topics i'm interested in, i respond to his/her discussion. ;) i would like to note that there are certain discussions i respond to that requires me to check out the profile of the mylot user first. especially if the topic is about mylot guidelines, mylot earnings, mylot friends, quality posts, mylot reputation etc. i would check their profile before responding coz i want my response to be appropriate to the situation of the mylot user who started the discussion. it's the only way to have a relevant and applicable response. so then, i familiarize myself a little about the mylot user. the next time i see this user requesting to be in my friends' list, i'd approve readily without going back again to his/her profile page. :)

Hi Mdchennai.. Frankly, I do most of the request for friendship by my own and forward my hand first ;) I think there is nothing wrong if somebody is doing nice here even not with mine. Yes, if I have a request, I first of all go for the profile in order to have little bit familiarity with that person. Surely, there would never be a matter of personal liking or disliking. I will definitely accept the offer! I don't go for how much responses he already has. I think if people just deny the others for that reason, how can he become a big true mylotter to be acceptable to all :) Thanks for a nice topic too.

Hello,mdchennai, i will accept nearly all of the friend requests and i will check their profiles before i do it,i will have to understand their interests, location and how long they have been a member for, i may also see their discussions or replies, but i will accept them anyway unless it is quite clear that they are spammers,i will put it on hold, i will not deny them yet. Then I will turn on the notify button so that i will be notified when this new friend has new discussions, if they pique my interest,of course i will reply to them. Nice to make friends with you in mylot Good luck.

I am look that profile and make comment from their topic, but sometimes I am very disapinted if the new friend I am add not respon my topic discussion. Best regards

Your way of writing discussion is really cool. I liked it .. usually I used to get friend's request for adding and sometimes I used to send friend's request.. but I truely don't understand when a person adds us from where exactly he finds our id ?? from discussions or through search ? Do u add someone through search ?

Erm, firstly, when I get new friends request I only accept it because I want to make lot of friends expecially on MyLot. After I accept them as my friends, I look at their profil to know more about themself. After that if I think the person is very sporting and I like him/her as my friends, I send the private message to them. I said thank for want to be my friends and want to know more about them. After that, we respond at our discusstion each other. But only sometimes because we also busy for daily life and job.

I always accept the friendship requests that i get. Naturally after checking out his / her profile page i try to answer as many discussions as i can! I must admit that i dont peek into my friends best answer though! one more thing that i do that some may find intrusive is leave a comment every now and then on my friends profile like "how are you doing? havent heard from you in a while" or something similar just to keep in touch. After all mylot is not just a place for earning $$, its a place for socializing and making new friends!

I usually accept all friends. I like to go to their site and answer any post that they make that I am interested in. I will also turn their email on so that I get notice when they post a new discussion. I try very hard to keep up with the people on my friends list. I do not post to discussions that I know nothing about or care nothing about no matter if my friend posts or not. I like to give my friends as much support in their discussions as I can.

I always check the profile of someone who requests to be my friend just to see how much we have in common. I very seldom turn down a request for a friend. I have met many new friends on MyLot and really enjoy the website. I'm sometimes a little slow in responding to the comments people make on my discussions but that is just because I work at home full time as a medical transcriptionist so I go back and forth to MyLot in between typing reports. Have a great day!!

il reply to him or her thanks for accepting me as your friend, im glad we are friends now.

the first thing that i'll do if there's a friend request ,,i will check his/her profile ,.and then i'll see the discussion that he/she post ..and also his/her friends .,

I always accept their request without thinking the second thought. As long as I can please him/her and she/he likes to be my friends no problems with me.

i just accept frnds request and do nothing else.

First I check that person's page on myLot and see how many friends he/she has. If the number is huge (more than 100) I'm pretty sure I won't be receiving any answers from that person (it's absurd for someone to answer all the discussions from so many friends). Then, I check out the discussion topics. If they're interesting it means that I'll have what discussions to respond to in the future. But I generally accept friends. I wait for a couple of weeks and if the friendship doesn't work (meaning that none of us has any benefit on myLot from being friends) I just delete that person.

I usually check the profile before I accept a request. Once I have accepted the request then I look at their discussions and responses and also their friends list.

after accepting friend's request.tell me something abt myself.after this ask from my friend.after this disscussion on some topic.and tell my views and ask from them also.after somedays i want to meet my friend ok and then we are becoming a good friends.its easy man.

yes i accepted request then i meet with her then i concluded for friendship.

indeed that really was difficult, but didnt't we want to look for the friends that many of the various countries, exchanged knowledge, exchanged the culture, come on was looked for by us the friends together in this world even more friends of our fortune will be fluent in, that the suggestion from me zeppelin from indonesia

Good for you that you are checking the profile. I think that's a good way in making friends here in mylot. And also, you are taking time checking those unresponded discussions and you respond to it...How nice of you to make your friends happy...and thank you also for responding to my discussions. I'm glad to know that are people like you who are concerned with other people. thanks!!!