always fight!

When me and my partner fight in a simple thing basically im the one whose so silent.. i dont want the scenario to be big. i give time to let it cool down then i talk to my partner andtell her whats the problem (in a super cool tone) what can we do about it.. basically the work..and im sure everythings will be ok.

First, I would need to think about why we are always fighting. Then of course talk to him. What is eating at me so or him so that is causing the fighting? Then if there is no way to come to a truce the relationship would need to take a break from each other for awhile or end.

Oh man...I am going to have to keep an eye on this thread. I need some advice on this topic, as well.