What is the secret to getting good responses?

I think it has more to do with how many mylot friends you have than the quality of your discussions. If you go to the profile of people with a lot of responses you will find that they have a lot of people listed as their friends. I posted a question about eye color yesterday and it received 10 responses right off the bat. I currently have between 30 and 40 friends on mylot. Some people I know have over 100 friends. They get a large number of responses.

try to post discussions which are very easy to respond.The discussions should be in a very easy to understand english.Also you should make lots of frieds who respond to your discussions.

I think it is a very complicated question you are asking here. I personally think that is no secret here. But there are ways that you can get more response's. I decided not to use those tools that i am offering you now because it is against my beliefs in being here. So, that's how it goes: Have as many friends as you can, respond to them and they will usually respond to you. Use a topic which is interesting and is common for all human beings, where you give them a choice to decide yes or no and to tell you why they choose that choice. And, the last thing is, always write quality posts, that means long and things that are reliable. So people would be interested in reading your story and responding to it. Try not to promote other sites, people are fed up with this, and it is against mylot guide rules. Good luck here.

David, put up a good looking picture of a woman and you will have lots of responds. Of course it did not work for me, but then I'm not in my early 20's or late teens. Seriously I don't know what it takes. My best discussion so far was my rant from yesterday. The best advice I can give is don't worry about how many responses you get. Just be yourself. That is what I'm doing! They either like me or they don't. ;-)