Why kids always suufer due to divorces??

India
April 25, 2007 4:59am CST
Well one of my cousin had her parents divorced.Nw at her marriage age,every proposals gets rejected,due to the reason that her parents were divorced..Is this nature by the people justifying...what could be an ideal solution????
4 responses
@cyrile07 (236)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
well, some kids are affected by their parents divorce but for me it is really upto the parents even if they are divorce to decide to be there for their kids... communicate with their kids and let their kids understand their decision.. i have a friend whose parents are divorce but she is a great kid...why? because her parents are there for her always.. she understand why her parents has to split up.. now, she is 10yrs happily married to a wonderful guy.. :) so it is still really upto your decision as to what you want to do in your life...
@cyrile07 (236)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
well, some kids are affected by their parents divorce but for me it is really upto the parents even if they are divorce to decide to be there for their kids... communicate with their kids and let their kids understand their decision.. i have a friend whose parents are divorce but she is a great kid...why? because her parents are there for her always.. she understand why her parents has to split up.. now, she is 10yrs happily married to a wonderful guy.. :) so it is still really upto your decision as to what you want to do in your life...
@rapolu_cs (1184)
• India
25 Apr 07
People who are divorced lack respect as before because they are treated to be out of society as taking divorce is ill against the humanity and culture and by this the most loosers are the women and the children.Women are illtreated and are seen to be inhuman in the society than the man and children because they doesnot get respect in their future as everyone of their age will insult them as his or her mother or father are not the good or in the other way,so i think whatever proposals he or her is getting may be failure of this reason or your may think of her marrital life may result in the same way as happened to her or his parents,this may be one reason.
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
I think because she thinks that her marriage will end up being divorce too and her children too could suffer. I think she does not accept yet, the separation of her parents, the reason why they separate. So that's why she could not accept such proposals.