Judge true love

I could say that there are some people who are not very opened to their feelings and most of them are hesitant to expressed what they feel.What is most important here is that his actions are genuine and showing that he really cares and loves you so much.Actions speaks louder than words.

There are some men (and some women to) who find it difficult to say the words "I love you". Men tend to get embarrassed by expressing their feelings in this way. I used to have a problem saying it, because I felt so vulnerable. I have learned through my life, that it's OK to say it now and I do quite often. When we enter a new relationship, we feel we are taking a risk. This feeling can be the result of falling for someone in the past who didn't fall for us and then we get hurt. And there is no pain like it. The result was that I started to guard my feelings and not show them - not even to myself, to avoid the risk of pain. But once I found how committed my partner was to me, I could then let myself go. That was a long time ago, and I've moved on quite a long way since then.:-) To know whether your own love is true, is again a risk. Feelings can change and if you stop loving someone, it's better to let them know quickly, than pretend that everything is OK.

when some one really loves us they wont expect anything than love and care from us that is true love,when they care in each and every things we doing and advising and telling which will be good to us is true love

Truelove has no inhibitions. If a person loves somebody, there is no reason for him or her to hesitate or feel uncomfortable whenever the topic comes up. Yes, actions do speak louder than words. But i do not understand people who find it difficult to discuss their feelings to the person they love! I believe that if love is felt, there is nothing to hide to the person you love! It makes person more feel more secure in love to hear words as an assurance from their loved ones every now and then.

erm.. i think what most important is the action.. as they say.. action speaks louder than words.. do you want your boyfriend to sweet talk? and do nothing of what he had said? no right? in my opinion, you have to judge from his action.. and not his word.. and yes.. sometimes.. people will say it through words.. people like me.. haha.. but now i'm changing my concept.. i prefer to do more on action.. i think it's more reliable.. and at times.. when she wants me to say it.. i will.. because i know.. it gives her more security.. both have to learn how to put faith and trust in one another.. then the relationship will be a successful one :)

im here again vicky, NI HAO MA? maybe those persons who refuse to say "I LOVE YOU" (WO HEI NI)are my type of person. i didnt know they too exist. im thinking im the only one.