Do you show to your husband or boyfriend when you hurt or cry?
By cutie_nory
@cutie_nory (38)
Philippines
April 25, 2007 8:50am CST
Have you ever show or tell to your bf or husband about your emotion?do you think that would be fine to them to know?
8 responses
@cutie_nory (38)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
I just thought they would think that when you cry in front.you are a loser and you can`t handle yourself
@krebstar5 (1266)
• United States
25 Apr 07
For me it depends on the situation. There are times when I think it's a bit embarassing for him to see me cry (like over sad movies or something) so I try to hide it. It doesn't help much because he still notices it.
Other times when we are fighting or I am upset about something, I really don't mind him knowing. I feel that when he knows that I'm crying it makes him understand that I am really upset about something and not just picking a fight. Also, the tears could be a sign of some other issue that I'm having. Then the tears are kinda the final straw and that's the sign for us both to know that we should slow down, stop whatever, and just talk about things for a bit.
If you really love someone, you should be comfortable sharing your emotions around them, especially when these emotions could mean that you need their support with something.
@rhionclead (278)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
yes i do,,, he's a part of my life and its ok to him if i tell him about my emotional problem and its ok for him that i cry in front of him...
but most of the time i cried alone in my room.
@rodeotexas (1153)
• United States
25 Apr 07
My husband knows if I cry but I used to never let it show.
@curvychick77 (1084)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I tell my husband everything. We talk and when I'm sad he always listens. It's good to let them know because they will be there for you, if they care and love you they will listen. Never be afraid to share your feelings. It will help you feel better in the end.
@bambi_81 (28)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I recently got back together with my ex boyfriend we had dated before for a year and a half and i wouldn't ever really tell him how i felt about things or if something was bothering me which i think is part of the reason we broke up before. This time I told him I wasn't holding anything back or hiding when something was wrong and things have been going much better. It is always better to let your partner know how you are feeling.
@rainqueen21 (338)
• United States
25 Apr 07
when i was dating no, but when i finally got into a serious relationship which led to marriage of course i do you can't have a honest marriage if your partner doesn't know how you feel especially if it is about a situation that you and him maybe going through he needs to know how you feel otherwise nothing can be fixed and your partner will go on thinking everything is perfectly fine which will only lead to hurt and remorse in a relationship