what will u suggest to your friend about the abortion?

if she is my friend, i will check the personality and quality of her life before giving advice. if she's not srong enough, i will tell her to do the abortion, it's cruel, but it's crueler to let the baby lives in this wicked world without a strong mother who is able to protect him. but, if she's strong, patient, and also have a good financial plan, why doesn't she has the baby? no father, that would be just fine, as long as she's got her best mother, wouldn't it?

Well no one can tell her what to do, She will have to make that decision for herself. I don't agree with abortion, I knew a girl who wasen't sure if she wanted one or not and waited until the last possible minute to do it, she was showing and everything. I thought that was awful, then a year later she got pregnant with another guy and kept that baby. Why don't you suggest adoption, I know that it would be hard to do but then there would be no abortion and that baby could go to a family that could give it a great life. There is no shame in doing that, i think it is one the most unselfish things to do and someday she could explain why she decided to give the baby up for adoption. I got pregnant at 17 and kept my daughter, i felt that I got myself into this mess and now I have to be responsible and do whats right. We all make mistakes but tell her to do the right thing.adoption or keep it.

The main question you have to ask is whether she doesn't want to raise it or doesn't want to carry it. Abortion solves unwanted pregnancy. Adoption solves unwanted parenthood. If she doesn't want to carry it in the first palce, then she should get an abortion. But if she wouldn't mind carrying it, then she can put it up for adoption. But you also have to concider the fact that the adoption system is sh*t right now and there are already hundreds of thousands of children who have no home and no family and putting a baby up for adoption would probably be taking a home away from another child who is already in the system.

All I would do would be to make sure she knew All her options, from there it is her decision. Only she knows what decision she can live with.

I had a close friend who got pregnant in high school. I told her to follow her heart. She decided to abort, more her father's decision than anyone else's. I was there for her and was a shoulder to cry on. Who knows if it was the right decision or not but it didn't work out with the father and she would have been a young single mother without the support of her parents. It would have been a tough road to be on. So my opinion on the subject is that you should just be there for her to lean on and talk to. Friends are what she needs.

Abortion is correct when you don't to raise the baby.But you also have to take care about future.In future if you want a baby it should not affect it.Ithink you understand what i want to say.

If i know the situation more, i will try to see all the aspects of the problem. But whatever her choice is, i will support it and try to give a courage.

Just stay out of it. The kid isn't yours, Its her decision to make. Hopefully she will take everything into consideration when she decides. Just try to be supportive no matter what she decides.

Well, I would try to visit the idea of adoption with her first. If she for sure knows she doesn't want to raise the baby, or can't raise the baby, then maybe she could think about putting the baby up for adoption and giving it a chance at a good life. But if she really wants the abortion I would stand by her and support her. It is her body and her baby. I agree with you that she shouldn't keep the baby if she doesn't want it.

One time I would sit with her and discuss while no one is around to interrupt. Talk to her about the pros and cons of abortion. That adoption is a good option to use. Let her know that no matter what she decides that you will be there for her. It is a big decision and a hard decision for a women to make. She needs to make sure that whatever decision she makes is the right one for her so she has no regrets.

You know what is in your heart but what you feel may not be right for your friend. I think I would tell her that it is a very personal decision and one that she must make for herself but that I would be there to stand by her no matter what her decision is.

That's a thought-provoking question, and a difficult one. It is difficult to suggest anything as your friend obviously seek confirmation from you on what she should do, and that you hold the life of the baby in your hands. I suppose it will always depend on the situation. I will always however try to convince her to do otherwise and pursue with the pregnancy. Or at least try to clear up all other options. Perhaps she was not thinking rightly and it is up to me to logically argue the situation. But if she was really determined to have an abortion and is just asking for confirmation or support from me, then I will support her on her decision.

I'm not a pro or anti abortion. For me, it really depends on the situation whether the abortion is right or wrong. But in general, the abortion itself is wrong. Abortion is not easy so we can't judge the person who did it coz i know she doesn't want it too but she thinks that this is the best. Well, i know someone who really did't care when she aborted her child, I think she found it exciting and fun when she saw how the abortion was made. Going back, when a girl aborted her child, maybe she thinks that it is the best way, it's better to abort the child instead of making the child live a miserable life. But yeah, there is an adoption. I really don't know. What i know is that we don't have the right to judge the person if she aborted the child coz that situation is also a difficult one.