Flirty or Friendly?
By eeseharden
@eeseharden (603)
United States
April 25, 2007 2:15pm CST
I'm a very friendly person. I have many people that I consider friends. Some have been friends of mine for over 30 years. A lot of them are males. My husband doesn't have an issue with it because he has known me since the 3rd grade and knows that's just how I am...very friendly. If he ever thinks it might be perceived by others as flirty, he tells me. Do you have someone like me or have you ever dealt with someone you thought was being too friendly? Share your thoughts on this.
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4 responses
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I am a known flirt. I admit it. lol. I love to flirt with the men. I love attention and will get it anyway I can. I am also very friendly. So even though I flirt nobody minds. I don't step on toes though. By that I mean if a girl and a guy are obviously together I wont flirt with that guy. But any guy who is alone is at my flirting mercy lol. Doesn't mean I want to be with them just means I want their attention at that particular moment lol
@eeseharden (603)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I can see that. I have been called a flirt even when I'm not trying to be. I am more mindful of crossing that line depending on the situation though. Thanks for your honesty and keep on flirting.
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I have been told that I am flirty also. I don't think that I am, I am just friendly. My husband also doens't think of me as flirting with our male friends. I guess that it what is important...what our husbands think.
@eeseharden (603)
• United States
26 Apr 07
I agree that what our husbands think is what matters most too.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I am a very friendly person also if people are friendly back to me. I can be better friends with males than I can with females. We tend to have alot more in common. My husband doesn't have an issue with it either. My husband and I are best friends and nothing will ever come in between us or change that. My husband used to be a bit too friendly with others when we first met, but he has changed alot since then. He is as friendly as can be, but there is a limit to it now. He used to like to pat other women on the butt that we knew and I told him it got on my nerves and the only butt he needs to pat is mine, laught out loud.
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@eeseharden (603)
• United States
26 Apr 07
I think that's great that you are both so trusting of the other. It's also a great idea to be open and let each other know if something bothers you. We do have a lot in common.
@charlestchan (1415)
• Malaysia
25 Apr 07
nope.. i don't consider you as flirty.. i think it's really normal.. most important.. you do know who is the one most important to you.. you know your own position.. you're someone's wife.. and you do aware that your husband is the most important.. being friendly is not wrong.. and it is never wrong.. it's just some people being too nosy to have gossips around it.. and you don't really have to care about it.. but do concern about your husband feelings.... not many men can actually stand such gossip.... but i think since your husband trust you.. go on with it.. it's fine.. =)
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@eeseharden (603)
• United States
26 Apr 07
It's nice to get your opinion on the subject. My husband does trust me and I know what a good thing I have. I would never to anything to mess it up. If I feel like something is bothering him I would stop.