number of respond is not the same to the number below my picture ??

I guess it happens sometimes because of several reasons. Maybe the number isn't updated yet or maybe myLot didn't credit a certain response made by you. Or we can also say that you lost track of counting and can't remember your last number. There are several reasons for it. But if I were you I wouldn't mind the number just keep posting discussions and responses.

The number is how many responses that you make on other discussions. Not the discussions that you start, or when someone responds to your discussions.

Hi cutie_nory and welcome to mylot. I think that it's the same number as how many discussions you answered. I noticed that when we start discussions it doesn't count as a post and our posts don't go up. Sometimes it happens that mylot deletes our answers but you are just starting and I don't think that's the reason. So I really don't know what happened. Maybe you did a mistake when you counted? Or maybe I didn't understand well your question? Good luck cutie_nory and I hope you will enjoy it here on mylot.