how do you know if the person you are with right now is the right one?
By daryljane
@daryljane (3406)
Philippines
April 26, 2007 1:01am CST
are there signs? or do you just feel it?
im a relationship right now for four years but i still dont know if he's already the one for me? i mean, we meet on certain level that only the two of us understand, we have a son, yes were already living together...but when talking about marriage, i suddenly would want to change the topic and rather talk something else?
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4 responses
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
26 Apr 07
I don't think anyone can know for sure as nothing and no-one stays the same, people always grow and change, I think when you have a partner you just have to try and grow in the same direction, sometimes people grow apart and fall victims to temptations but I also if you have met your soulmate then you will automatically grow along in life together but this is something obly time can tell, it would be good if there was a sign so people could know for sure it would save a lot of heartache.
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
yeah! i agree! i wish there are signs telling us that this is already the right person for you...if there is, i guess there will be less infedility happening around us. what do you think?
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
26 Apr 07
Yes I agree, I think too many people rush into things....I hopr you go well though.
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@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
yes indeed. i surely hope things will work out for this time. thanks!
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@trishraj1 (2)
• India
27 Apr 07
i dont understand u u both have a son then why u dont give any name to ur relationship because if u live togather then why u not getting married yet this is not right u both not do gud for ur son. because when ur son grow then may be everyone tonting on him that ur mom dad not getting married this is sick.
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@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
there are reasons thats only us knows thats why other peoples dont understand ( hope you'll respect that..)...and its a decision i made not to get married...
@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
26 Apr 07
i can feel it by talkin to her but some time i cant so u have to remove some enquire from outside and you have to see that person is right or not one girl was my best friend and see shows me as if she is truth but she lied me and try to beat be through one boy they both were trying to fool me but i came to understand that girl is fooling me
@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
27 Apr 07
now i m alright because one thing that i can bbeleive is mylot so i surf daily on mylot adn have some good friends like u !!
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
thanks for that! and thats right, we get to meet quality people here in mylot!
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@rainqueen21 (338)
• United States
26 Apr 07
as crazy as this sounds you just know, if you have to think about it then most likely they are not when i met my husband within two months he moved in with me, 3 months later got engaged and and 5 months after that got married and now i have two beautiful twin baby girls, so really you will just know love isn't about rationalizing the what if's it's about what your heart feels not your mind
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
hmmm...looks like love swept you off you feet there...good for you! and keeps it up!
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