ARE you the first one who say up "so sorry" during a quarrel
By lankie
@lankie (477)
China
April 26, 2007 1:49am CST
i think it is important to admmit our faults at the proper time.Once you have spoken the word or done the wrong thing,you will feel reluctant to admit most of the time.The cause may be ya wont lose your face .After a long time, when you think of it, you get an upsetting feelings for not haveing said sorry for it.That is human.It is high time you make up the wrong and get things back to their place, isnt it?IT is a good beginning of your friendship.
5 responses
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
sometimes, due to pride and all like you said, its hard to admit that its your fault all along.
i just had an argument with a friend last month and we havent settled the issue yet, were not even talking until now and i dont know if time will come that we can still cope up. since all bad things are said and i know its really hard to make up.
about it being a good start of our friendship, i dont know, coz we now know that there issues in the past already.
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@stribijev (229)
• Poland
28 May 07
I'm afraid it sometimes has nothing to with pride, the reason why people do not say "sorry" lies in most cases in people's desire not to think, not to accept others' opinions. Such people will never admit they were wrong even if they said "sorry". But there also are people who may and will understand if they are explained where they were at fault. I think I belong to the latter group. And if I'm arguing with anyone, I always feel guilty for that, be I right or wrong. People mustn't quarrel, they ought to "discuss". I'm glad that all topics here are titled as "discussions". Let's discuss and there won't be evil in this world!
@philipwu51 (684)
• China
26 Apr 07
you have a point there.
sometimes its very hard to admit our mistakes. but we should to speak sorry if we know we were wrong. I have try to do this, in fact, when I am doing this, it usually end a quarrel.
have a good day.
@joyce2007 (54)
• China
28 May 07
Nice!Philipwu, I have the same feeling like you!
I will try to say sorry for my fault! heehee
@yamahagirl (415)
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27 May 07
Hi sometimes if i think its my fault then i will be the first to say sorry but if i think im not in the wrong then no
