TO LOVE someone who do not love U or TO BE LOVED by the 1 U do not love????
By blue_gemz
@blue_gemz (107)
Philippines
April 26, 2007 3:25am CST
its a difficult situation right??? you guys, which would you choose? careful......
7 responses
@cherylmae (173)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
To love someone who do not love u. it would be terrible to make somebody suffer because of you.. i'd better do the crying than someone else.
@blue_gemz (107)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
cherylmae thanks... it is better to suffer than other people will suffer because of you... so better choose to be loved by someone you do not love, i think as time goes by you will learn how to love that person..
@blue_gemz (107)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
i would like to add you in my frenz list....cherylmae please accept my frenz request to you. thanks...
@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
27 Apr 07
yeah it is.its happens to me when i just broke up with my 1st bf for about 3mth,then i have another relationship with a guy and i feel that its not right so i break him up.he keep trying to come back to me but i always refuse it.one day my best friend told me that it'll be better to being loved then be love,and ask me to give him another chance to prove his love....i do it and now he is becoming my husband lol
@NiKe_bOi (165)
• Singapore
26 Apr 07
If i can dont choose this 2 options.. i will.. i dont see the point in both the choices.. one party has to suffer from it.. either you or the other person.. we cant be so selfish la..
But if i really wan to choose.. i rather be the one to be loved by the 1 i do not love.. but in the 1st place i wont be with her if i do not love the person.. haha.. the question is whether to love or not to loved.. not to be together or not.. =p
@blue_gemz (107)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
to be loved than not love and to be loved at all....
just try to learn how to love the person you dont love but love you so, i guess that the best thing to do...
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@msjigga (864)
• United States
26 Apr 07
It is very difficult when you heart deceives you and makes you love someone who does not love you. You try to do everything on earth to make that person feel the same way. This is for the ladies.... YOU CANNOT CHANGE THE HEART OF A MAN!!! if his heart was not in it in the biginning it NEVER will be so dont waste your time, or if you were in a relationship with a man and he stops talking to you its OVER. Try to move on. It can be difficult if a person loves you and dont love him or her if that person is overly obssesive or possesive.Even if the person is not crazy it will hurt them at first telling them you dont feel the same way however in the long run it less heartbreaking than that person finding out your were pretending to feel the same way.
@blue_gemz (107)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
thanks msjigga for the comment.. yes its very difficult to love someone who do not love the way you love him/her... when it comes in to relationship it is important that you love each other, give and take :)
@joycer (498)
• Sri Lanka
27 Apr 07
Hmm, i will choose to be loved by the one whom i do not love. It's so disappointing if the one you love does not love you. If someone loves me, he will take care of me, make me happy, maybe then i will like him, even if i don't love him, but eventually i will love him for loving me.
