i need your help people out there......

I am glad I stumbled upon yuopur discussion. Its something which I faced fourteen plus years ago. My mom was single parent and I never wished top hurt her and my hubby loved me alot. I had tolsd him that I will never go against wishes of my mom and he had said he wont force me too. He was from different state and I was from different. when my mom came to know of our relationship she refused marriage. I had decided I will nopt go against her but not evcen marry anyone else but not rebel or go onto fast either I will just pursue a carreer and help her. SHe had laid one conmdition before my hubby that till I complete my studies he will nto come to see me or stay on touch in either way.He promised her he will come only after my graduation result will be out. He pursued his carreer and I my studies. Hoping to meet again. And as he had promised he wrote a letter to my mom asking her permission to meet me once and ask my wishes and he asked me if I am still free and not seeing anyone else. It was a test of our inner strength and we both passedfor two years we didn't meet or talk honeslty and proved to the parents of both sides how sincere we are for each other. They agreed to get us married and we have been happily marrie for past foruteen years now. Can you do this for your love? If you can then you lvoe her truly.If you take a short cutr then I seriously doubt your relationship.

Hi. I feel you should let her know how you feel towards her and hear her views too then you two can talk it over. Remember no venture, no victory. besides, someone else may be admiring her too and could propose and win her heart if you keep quiet. Follow you heart and i'm sure, you won't regret it. cheers!

Awww man that sucks :( Anyway for me she has to know. She as your friend, has the duty to know what lies beneath your heart. I doubt that she wont talk to you if you proposed to her...well their might be a possibility that she'll avoid you but trust me it won't take long. Coz if you just stayed keeping your sweet secret from you friend forever, you'll hold that regret for your entire life...look, what if she likes you back? Remember that you'll have nothing to loose when you try ;) mkay?