Do you will love a guy that never trust you?

Philippines
April 26, 2007 8:07am CST
Have you experience that your bf or husband is not trusting you in your work or any? How can you cope that thing in his mind?It really getting me mad.
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@9676276 (264)
• Pakistan
26 Apr 07
Love can niether be created nor be destroyed.we can not make love with anybody however he/she trust u or not.LOve is a natural feeling,it just come from ALLAH.it,s great Gift from ALLAH.the point is dat we should trust da ppl we love & we shouldn,t think dat they trust us or not...
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@ergg78 (344)
• Malaysia
26 Apr 07
It's a feeling of having only one leg when someone really doesn't trust your work and it's just too irritating when they keep commenting what you are doing. I think it's better if we can ask them to do the things they don't trust us to do. That way we don't have to hear them nag us.
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@mehale (2200)
• United States
26 Apr 07
Be very careful here. I was in a situation similar to this for a while, and the distrust - he was constantly thinking I was with someone else - only got worse. In the end it lead to violence from him, and I was forced to leave him to protect myself and my daughter. If he is not willing to trust you, is it possible HE is doing something that should not be trusted?
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
hope it not goes to violence..I try to talk to him in calm way yet it is over and over again.It is unfair.
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@mehale (2200)
• United States
28 Apr 07
I, too hope that it does not go to violence. Keep trying to talk to him. Have you thought about counseling? Perhaps that would help.
• China
28 Apr 07
i think it's really awful experience, though i don't have a bf right now, but i ever have the same experience in my work . The only one thing that you can do is just let time tell everything. It is said that actions speaks louder than word. Never mind what others think about you, we'd trust ourselves at first, if we have no self-confidence,how we'd expect other to do so!wish you can free your heart from worried and just show your best to your bf, and let him know that you are perfect and you can make it!