today has been fun, now my hubby lost his job to a cheaper worker..

@yanjiaren (9031)
April 26, 2007 11:26am CST
Well they say when it rains, it pours, so I will take today as a turning point , things could get worse or I can hope for a nice miracle. I will go for option b and just do the non action Lao zi thing and be calm, until someone comes along and down rates me again just to make things even better. I love Mylot, it's like writing a diary lol don't you think? I am going to make myself a cup of tea because that red nine is giving me sore eyes lol, and I will be back in a jiffy. I wrote to hubby and told him just to chill and not be upset and to take a good rest, we will survive, as long as our hearts are together. I think I have decided to pray hard and fast today lol. O.K I am going for the big fat juicy one now. Please God can you give me the Mandate of Heaven please, later on you can tell me what to do with it, but I want to play and experiment a bit with it before things get more serious. AMEN.
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• United States
26 Apr 07
Sorry to hear about that. I hope things get better for you.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
26 Apr 07
a lovely normal day, could be worse
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
26 Apr 07
I am so sorry that you are still having bad luck. I used to have those days alot and it used to drive me totally crazy, trying to deal with everything happening to me all at one time. I hope a nice miracle happens for you and your husband. I hope he gets another job and it is better than the one he had before. I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, even though we qaestion whay we have to go through such things. I do believe that your prayer will be answered soon. We all go through rough times but I will also pray that everything will get better for you both soon. I hope God answers your prayers and your day will be filled with happiness. Amen.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
26 Apr 07
I totally understand that. I know it sure is hard to make it when you strike it out on your own. It is a dog eat dog world and it is hard for some of us to be successful no matter how hard we try. I hope the both of you can be together soon. Life is too short to spend time apart from one another. I hope God blesses you and brings him to you.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
26 Apr 07
Thanks so much.
@yanjiaren (9031)
26 Apr 07
Yeah that is why I want to bring him here, because out there it is not stable for him, especially at his age. God bless you too.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
26 Apr 07
oh, i am sorry to hear about that. but atleast, you don't feel so negative about it. good! your husband needs someone who is positive in life to cling unto especially now. you really are a funny person 'el... and a kind hearted one,too. anyway, i love myLot so much, too. that's why maybe, i am still in myLot after 8 months and still looking forward to many more years with this site. it's in here where i can write about my past, present and future plans. where i can share my craziest ideas, impossible dreams, funny thoughts and even, i can be silly and yet, people appreciate me as who i am. i found real friends here... accepting, understanding and people who are just there to give you positive thoughts about life. and i hope that your husband will be okey tomorrow! and go pray 'el! HE listens! happy myLotting!
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
26 Apr 07
yup. i hope so, too. and we can just laugh about everything! haha. atleast, we will laugh together and not look like crazy fools. hehe. anyway, sleep tight and have a nice dream... dream with your husband, too... not fighting, i hope! haha!
@yanjiaren (9031)
26 Apr 07
Thanks for being a great friend. I hope we can meet up one day, with our lovely men beside us. We are a soppy pair of sisters aren't we lol? I have to sleep now, I have had too much today. I will respond to discussions tomorrow..hugz
@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
26 Apr 07
After all those happened to you today your husband lost him job too??Just thing positive my friend...he lost him job because the God has for him a better one.Wait and see,after few days he gonna find a new better work. PS.Ante tritose to kako...
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@yanjiaren (9031)
26 Apr 07
asta ke khesta lol, apivthisa, irtha na vgalo kanena grossi pali lol..pragmatika tha fame skata lol, ke tha me katevasune stis pente apo ta ennia, pios malakas mevale sto ennia thelo na xero..
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@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
26 Apr 07
Many,many + + + + from me.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
26 Apr 07
nase kala mana mu..pao yia nani
@im_anna (717)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
just like you, i am also in a difficult situation. just wanted to share some words that have made me feel better and i hope these would have a positive impact on you too. "It is not the critic who counts nor the man who points out how the strong man stumbled or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs and comes up short again and again; who knows the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at best, knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who, as the word, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly so that his place shall never be with those timid souls who know neither victory or defeat. ---- Theodore Roosevelt We will always encounter challenges that make us feel less than we really are. What matters is that we can pick ourselves up. The darkest hour is the best time to see the stars. It is when life seems most harsh and painful that the most wonderful blessings arrive. Obstacles are there for success because, as in all careers of importance, victory comes only after struggles and countless defeats. Yet each struggle, each defeat, sharpens your skills and strengths, each endurance, your ability and your confidence, and thus each obstacle is a comrade-in-arms forcing you to become better... or quit. Each rebuff is an opportunity to move forward. ---anonymous
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@yanjiaren (9031)
27 Apr 07
Thank you for sharing this.
@im_anna (717)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
your welcome. hope everything would turn out better, soon
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@feliniti (875)
26 Apr 07
Oh my God, you are not having a good day. I'm really sorry to hear about this news. Your husband must be very upset about it too. My thoughts are with you both. I hope that things work out for you soon. Best wishes.
@yanjiaren (9031)
26 Apr 07
You know how men get when they loose their jobs, like loosing their mojos, mmmmmmmm this is going to be another strain so help me every one, Lod Jesus, Buddha, 200 odd Daoist Immortals, Prophet Muhammad peace be upon you and every one else. I need some heavy metal man, come on I know guys you are there.
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@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
26 Apr 07
I am sorry to hear about your husband losing his job to a cheaper worker as it seems that is going to happen to a lot of other people as well in this country. Companies are trying to reduce costs and save money by letting go of the higher paid salaries and going after cheaper workers. I hope that he is not too upset and hope that he can find a good and better paying job. I hope that you are okay and that the Lord answers all your prayers. Hopefully things will get better soon for you and your husband.
@yanjiaren (9031)
27 Apr 07
thanks for your friendship and kindness
@gewcew23 (8007)
• United States
28 Apr 07
Lord, I just pray for this family. I know it wasn't too long ago that my family was going through a time without a job or money coming in. I know that You provided a wonderful new job making more money and less stress. Thank You Lord for all that You will do for this family, In Jesus name I pray, AMen
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@yanjiaren (9031)
7 May 07
thanks so much every one for your kind words
@GardenGerty (160949)
• United States
28 Apr 07
I have just found this post--what will you guys do? I know, it is not a time for panic, but for faith and prayers. You know the saying, "You get what you pay for"--I wish that on the people who let your hubby go for someone cheaper. I hope they get thoroughly "cheaped".
• United States
27 Apr 07
I am so sorry to hear what happen to your husband. That's very sad. Just remember the sun always come out after the rain. ^_^ Wish you guys the best of luck in the future. May Buddha be with you.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
27 Apr 07
Ask Lord Buddha not to take time off at the moment..
• Pakistan
27 Apr 07
Ouch! That is so bad. I will pray to Allah that things get better for you and your husband and I am sure that this is just another test and you two have to stay strong. Just by being with him will give all the support he needs to pass through this tough time. Good Luck and may your lives be filled with happiness and joy. + for you :)
@dlkuku (1935)
• United States
27 Apr 07
I'm sorry your husband lost his job, I have been where he is, losing my job so they could pay someone else cheaper wages. It's hard, but there is probably something better for him out there. I love your attitude, and I gave you a positive rating just because you are being so positive.
@Woodpigeon (3710)
• Ireland
27 Apr 07
I am sorry to hear this. I have read several f your posts now and you seem to have such a good attitude towards life no matter what gets thrown your way. I am sure something good is coming down the pipline your way. Hang in there in the meantime.
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@mari123 (1861)
• China
27 Apr 07
it is a bad news about your hubby lost his job,today,erevything need money to buy,water fee ,electrical fee and child education,houseing,and all so need money.if one of your family members who lost job,the life will hard to live.i come from a small country,most of them are poor.but in their life ,they can plant vegetables and breed pigs,so their life happy though have no money.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
27 Apr 07
they say, bad things come in clusters and go away in clusters aswell. so, don't you be sad ( i know, you are a braveheart) and have another cup of nice flavor tea on my behalf. i know you are very strong and happy kinda person, just take it in your stride. you two hold your hands and take a nice stroll , breathe in the fresh air and get going. just be the happy bunny you always have been. good luck, we all are with you.
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• China
27 Apr 07
I am sorry that your husband lost his job! but i believe that he will get better job in future.
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@romel_ece (1290)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Oops sorru to hear that your hubby lost his job to a cheaper worker.It's also common here in our country that some employees were laid off and they are replaced by new and contractual employees that obviously demanded a very low salary.
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27 Apr 07
Sorry to hear about your not so lucky day. Although I believe in the asying everything happens for a reason. When one door closes another one opens. I have lived in your shoes and still in a way am. I know things will get better for you and your family. I wish you well!