are you AFRAID TO FALL IN LOVE?

@nengs10 (3180)
Philippines
April 26, 2007 12:05pm CST
Why and why not? Do you have any bad experiences about love?
4 people like this
8 responses
@maumbi (2569)
• Indonesia
27 Apr 07
yes iam, when my girl friend without notice and only by short message! i really hate with woman, she leave because no reason or maybe i dont have a job or good job, is 2 years a go,but to day i have my own company and business and i can get any woman, what woman i want and so on.
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
no..i'm not afraid to fall in love because it's nice to be in love..i dont have traumas in loving a person but i have pain being felt before..my bf leaved me when i was pregnant, and until now, we dont have communication but i already moved on and i already forgive him and i'm happy with my new love life, my boyfriend who has much care, love, respect and trust with me..it's nice to be in love..
• Singapore
26 Apr 07
Between both afraid and not afraid. I would like to fall in love because, it may change my life into the better one if I can get someone whom I really love with. Love will bring the brand new spirit of life, you will do anything to the best of yours with the help of falling in love. I just afraid that being rejected. Do you how much pain if your love is being rejected by someone whom you really love and care with? Its really agony and painful. Some people says that if you want to make your partner happy just leave him/her, if he/she comes back to you, than he/she is the one who will be last forever. But, it's not what i think. I just can't face something like that.
@sherrir101 (3670)
• Malinta, Ohio
26 Apr 07
Oh, I was SO afraid to fall in love with Bruce. I did everything possible NOT to fall in love. I had been through several bad relationships and one was verbally abusive and I was oh so afraid to try that again that I would do anything possible to get out of falling in love. I had gained a whole bunch of weight, so it was like building a wall up around me. Didn't work. I finally seeked counseling and had weight loss surgery and met Bruce. I tried everyhting possible to push Bruce away at first. Finally after 3 1/2 years I am so happy. Finally, I am not afraid. I am in love!
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
definitely not! am not afaraid to fall in love! i mean it is not something that one should be afraid of... just feel the feeling.. let it be.. be truthful to one self. in my own opinion, and experience, loving should be free and without pretension.. i mean, i would want to regret anything and of the what ifs.. could haves and would haves.
@barnkinney (1343)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
yes.. and i think i will always be. because there will be no assurance that the other person would be able to catch you once you fall.. or he/she would try to catch you but would fail miserable.. and you would both end up hurt. i'm more afraid of hurting other people than hurting myself. i'm afraid to get so hurt that i would eventually loose or worse feel numb.
@hemalover (829)
• Egypt
26 Apr 07
i am not a fraid to fall in love .. becuse love is the beautiful thing in life, with out love the person means nothing.
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
definitely, NO! Just a while ago i've watch one of the best movies- musical movie ever- MOULIN ROUGE. I was totally fascinated with the main characters and the love story they had! It says, "the greatest thing you'll ever learn is LOVE and to be love in return!! Yeah, i agree cause love in particular has no reasons.. It has a boundless definition! Pain and sacrifice is always part of loving somehow, yet it is actually man's imperfection which makes him a human that brought all this bad experiences about loving someone! I believe we shouldn't cease nor be afraid of falling in love because it will always be the greatest gift of all!!