kids that teach to be a liar

I'm curious as to what kind of lie's you're talking about. Are they actually teaching them to tell lies about things, or is it more of a...don't tell your mom about this thing. If they're teaching them to tell lies, that its ok, then I wouldnt leave me kids with them, and tell them why. If its just telling your kids not to tell you stuff, then I would talk to them and the kids. Let them know that you as a parent deserves to know everything. Tell your kids that they can tell you anything, not to be afraid. My son's father tried that once, told my son not to tell me where they went (he took him out of state without my permission) As soon as me and my son were alone, he started telling me about driving over the Washington Bridge, I probed a little more, and found out they spent the night in New Jersey at his mother's house, I live in CT. I called his father, told him that if he ever pulled anything like that again, he would no longer be trusted alone with him, and that my son will tell me EVERYTHING, so dont ever tell him to hide anything from me. We've never had a problem again, he just needed to know how serious I was about limiting his time with him. Hope this helps you some.