What should you do If you love her deeply,but she has poor diploma and poor job?

China
April 26, 2007 9:08pm CST
You love her deeply.You're crazy about her personality ,her gentless,she's working hard. But she doesn;t have high degree diploma ,hasn't a better job.What's your thinking?Do you still love her. Both of you feel pessimistic about your future.It's the real test between reality and romantic love story.
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8 responses
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
i would definitely love her still,.. probably i would help her by letting her attend some seminars or workshops it'll help.. or maybe ill try to enroll her to any vocational courses. BUt if she doesnt wana do then i would love her still it doesnt matter at all. Tc
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@amydawn11 (906)
• Canada
27 Apr 07
when you love someone you love them for who they are and how they make you feel not because of what they have. She can always go back to school and better herself but can you really find true love again? If I loved someone it wouldn't matter if they were poor and had nothing i would stil be there.
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@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
27 Apr 07
why is it job and an education become matter in relationship? specially when the one who poor and uneducated is the girl? its really doesnt matter at all. my husband dont have a high diploma, he only gratuated from highschool and he never had a job with a good pay,in fact he often unemployee, so what...i love him and he love me very much,he care for me and understand me.he even willing to help me with my house job like mopping the floor,wash the dishes even washed the clothes
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• Canada
27 Apr 07
If you love her her education shouldn't matter. Love will secure your future, and you will learn to work with eachother's strengths and weaknesses, because you are individuals who love eachother for your own unique qualities. If you already love her, and you're crazy about her personality, go for it! Stay with her.
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• United States
27 Apr 07
What about you what kind of education do you have? Just because someone does not make a lot of money does not mean they will not make it in this world. Money is not everything. When my husband and I got married I only had a high school diploma and was preganant. When the children were little I went to college to get the education. I am not a fast learner, I had to take precollege classes just so I could get into a Jr. College. 4 years later I graduated with my certificate to become an LVN. I passed the boards and worked for 8 years as an LVN then went back to school to become and RN. Guess what I passed that also. I then went into the a sleep lab and passed the registery to become a sleep tech. Most people take the test two-five times before they pass it. I passed it the first time. Every person that I tutored passed it under, me the first time. Love is not everything but money is not everything either. Just because someone does not have much eduction now does not mean that they will not get more education in the future. At 18 I did not know what I wanted to be nor was I ready to go to college but at 25 I will ready.
@bunalice (315)
• China
27 Apr 07
I will not mind.I think love is just feeling,which will not be changed with different diplomas or jobs.If you really love her,and you can afford the pressure from economy.Do not hestitate to accept her.Everything will be better if there exists love.
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• China
27 Apr 07
How about she hasn't make up her mind to live with you because she want to choose a guy more richer than you? Every man has a desire to live a better life. we can see many love were defeated by reality.Such as money,housing,car etc.I'm a single man now,i don't want to make my love defeated by cruel reality.I will never married a girl i don't love though she is well-off materially.
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@earth2jacq (1502)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Love does not look upon wether a person has a high paying job or a high college degree. Which is there to love in that case? The person or the job? The girl or the degree? Love comes in all shapes,sizes and forms. If you always consider these things then sad to say I think you are not feeling love for her but instead just compassion that she has a low status in life.
@zjenikka (292)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
I am just curious, to whom are you inlove? the diploma? the job? or with the woman? Support, understand and help each other... it is better that way..
• China
28 Apr 07
what i love is not her diploma ,job but herself.Yes,support and understand can defeat all obstacles in our future.I know what i should do now.Thanks all of you.