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By mr_pitiful75
@mr_pitiful75 (430)
United States
9 responses
@heartonfire (4119)
• Denmark
21 Oct 06
you know,i would really want to know why she doesn't love you anymore..is it something that came all of the sudden?and if it didn't ,than what lead to that?did you do something wrong?love can dissapear in time for several reasons..daily problems,unmatch on caracthers,find a new interest in someonelse.cheating..lies..money..too many argues and fights..too little attention given to the partner...indifference..or taking that person for granted..it also depends on the type of woman,and her carachter..if you have patience to share your story,and answer to some of my questions i will have the patience to answer and give you the best advice i can...
@mr_pitiful75 (430)
• United States
21 Oct 06
sure
Well her reason started w/I yell at the kids too much.
Is that a good reason?
@heartonfire (4119)
• Denmark
21 Oct 06
if you only think about that certain fact,no,it shouldn't be,..but if u think it deeper,and put urself in the person's place..and think you get trough the same things everyday..and with other problems accumulated along the time also..it could mean something to her..and you should give it very much thought..a mother is closest to her kids than the father,because they are a part of her,she felt them growing inside,and she felt the unique feeling of giving birth..that is something hard to imagine..maybe she didn't see you as a good father when you yell at your kids...well,the point is that if that's the reason she told you..you should give her a call tomorrow,ask her for a date like in the young years;)..and have a seriouse discussion with her,remember all that your marriage meant since you both took the decision of going on the same road in life..till kids came in the picture and what went wrong since then...tell her exactly how you feel,and how muich you love her and your kids..and explain that every person can make mistakes in his life,but he only realises what he had when he lost it..so tell her you realise now how much she and the kids mean to you..and that you both swore before god to be toghether in good and bad..so she shouldn't turn her back on you in the bad moments..i think that is the best solution,and after you have this conversation with her..i think you will truely know what to do next and if it still worth fighting for it
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@heartonfire (4119)
• Denmark
22 Oct 06
hey,sometimes it is not about forcing..some people leave to drag attention that they are not happy anymore and that they really need a change..and as i said..you only realise what you have when you are about to lose it...so this could be a way to bring back some forgotten feelings...in time,we start taking our partner for granted..we should think that he has a personality too,he has hopes too,and wishes,and feelings..and he is not there for us ,we are there for him also...think about it;)
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@itsfourme (31)
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21 Oct 06
you can't just be there for her but move on maybe she will one day who knows
@DELICIA (136)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
21 Oct 06
well if she doesnt love u anymore , then is not much to b done anymore :-( if u still try to hget her back and she wont want becouse she doesnt love u anymore she might feel harested by u and that will b only bad ..... but maybe she still loves u and she doesnt want to addmit , we girls do that sometimes , well in that case , b good with her ,sweet like u never been before , change urself and b the way she want and she likes, proove her u are sincer and u love her , b again the way u were when she fall inlove with u ., suprise her , buy her flowers , make her smile , make her happy make her trust u and love u back .i am sure u can do it (chances are bigger if she still loves u and she doesnt admitte that , but there are smaller chances , but still chance even if is small if she doesnt love u anymore , so myy advise dont lose ur hope and try .
@mr_pitiful75 (430)
• United States
21 Oct 06
My thoughts on it too.I feel like love is always worth a chance
I also feel like if I "try"to hard that might be bad too
@annettenasser (2992)
• Kuwait
21 Oct 06
if she said she doesnt love you anymore then its over,think of why she doesnt love you anymore?did you do something wrong?think about it..
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