lesbian relationships,or all of a sudden the decisions is you want to be a les.
By chella86
@chella86 (39)
United States
April 26, 2007 10:48pm CST
i want your honest and forth right opinions on this.because my feelings is i am just confused on the way people think and why they do things that they do.i basically got into a heated discussion with a friend of mine,because i just did not get her way of thinking,and we debated for hours and she felt i just did not understand.she got mad at me because i did not agree with her so call reasoning or feelings.
it comes down to this scenario,she was dating this guy for a year in a half,but apparently the relationship was having difficulties and they ended up departing from one another.and since the departure she views all men as dogs and no good,and that was one thing i disagreed upon.and she did not like that.
the last part to it is that she is now claiming to be a lesbian after the break up and she was 100 percent straight before,i ask her why all of a sudden she is into females and it was never like that before,she told me if i dated who she dated and with all men being dogs i would be a lesbian too.men make you turn to woman and i just did not agree with her,i basically told her that was complete bull----,and that to me was a stupid lame a-- excuse.so we are at war with one another because i don't support her feelings.
i want you to tell me honestly how you feel about the situation,thank you.
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@bubbles731 (2)
• United States
7 Jun 07
It could be possible that your friend is just experimenting. She may just be feed up with men and how they treat her and thinks that a only a women will be able to make her happy. Or she just may like women know. Sexuality is a hard to understand sometimes. I hope you understand what I was trying to say if not just ask and Ill reword it.
@Tanika (632)
• Australia
1 May 07
Heya Chella,
I cannot really shed any light for you as to why your friend thinks how she does sorry, but I can give you my opinion on the subject matter..
I personally see love and relationships as based upon the person rather than the gender. It is unfortunate for your friend that she has let a few people turn her off an entire gender.
I agree with you that not all men are dogs, women can be just as bad in a relationship I think.
I am sorry that it has come to a war between you and your friend, maybe she is just hurting at the moment and will see reason soon.
I too have a friend who let a few bad experiences with men turn her %100 lesbian. Then again, maybe these women were always inclined toward lesbianism and just never let on. That is the conclusion I have come up with regarding my friend anyway. Although you say that your friend was definatly straight before so maybe thats not the case with your friend.
Well, after my ramble I do not really feel like I have shed any light on your situation sorry.
Tanika.