What qualities and kind of man/woman attracts you?
By samrat16
@samrat16 (2442)
India
April 26, 2007 11:16pm CST
I'm a 29 years old guy and very much kind of a family man. I'm married from 3 years now and love my wife a lot but many a times I find some females really attractive. I know I cannot cheat her but there are fantasies regarding that women. I think females who are very simple and sober attracts me most. Females who are shy sort of, wearning something very simple which can make her appear natural beauty attracts me most. Females with good figure and long face make me go crazy. I should control now as my wife will read it and would kill me. lolz So, what kind of male or female attracts you??
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@pramodthakur (2365)
• India
27 Apr 07
A girl with round face and fair colour with average height attracts me more. I like soft spoken girl. Good in behaviour. Helpful in trouble as advisor. No cosmatic user. She should be in natural look, what god has given her she should be in same condition. A girl with full clothes attracts me more. If she is open in most of the areas, then there will be no curiocity to know about her so she should be in full dress. Short hair upto year is my choice. Should not be talktative. Speak less and listen more is my policy and I hope the same from any girl whom I will love.
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@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Well, as a woman, men who look great in wearing clothes and especially physical looks.Lol!!!I guess, its normal that from this aspects,it attracts us women.The height and muscles. Hehehe!!! The smell and the color of their skin (fair complexion) And the way thay talk and their voice.
@smkwan2007 (1036)
• Hong Kong
27 Apr 07
A woman with a big smile, easy going, and laugh with me no matter how silly my ideas are, are the one attractive to me.
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
27 Apr 07
Hello,samrat,I have to say i will not be attaracted to the outlook of a guy,i would be attaracted by their personnalities. If a guy is nice and know how to care about other people,I will feel good about him,if they are also funny and know how to make me happy, I think i will be attracted by him.
But i have not yet founf a guy like that right now, I am still waiting.
@neertow20 (86)
• Malaysia
27 Apr 07
I think I attracted to men that are mysterious but when he speaks, he can actually make me laugh with his jokes and playing hard to get!!:P
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@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
27 Apr 07
What I would want to see in a woman would be a heart that has not been corrupted by this world. A woman who can stand against the crowd, being her own person, but at the same time being compassionate, loving, and caring for others around her. I would want to see loyalty in a woman, and to know that her emotions are solid. What I would want in a woman would be a heart that could make the entire world feel loved.
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@mummyofthree (2715)
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28 Apr 07
Men that attract me appear open and genuine. They show emotion through their eyes. Eyes are the windows in to the soul and can tell so much about someone.
A lovely kind, cheeky smile is a great asset.
A man needs to be clean and presentable, whilst retaining that manly, rugged look!
He also needs to have a great personality!
I think I am quite picky when it comes to men! It could explain why I have been single for many years now!
@Ravrockin (281)
• India
29 Apr 07
even i love and attracts towards natural an simple look up gorgeous.That really make me crazy.
@sheenshaukat (2617)
• Pakistan
27 Apr 07
It is something very natural. Two opposite sexes attract eachother. But it is not jungle. We are not beast. There is no jungle law could be adopted here. Wife is our belove by law. Her brother is our brother in law. Her sister, mother, father, saying in short her every relative is relative in law of her husband. It means that we are related with our wives by or in law. So we should take care of the law which bound us as of couple or life partner. This law may be ruled by our religious leaders and bools and we all should respect it. As concerned with second and ultimate part of the discussion. Being a male I am also attracted by females. But I think the female is called my life is true to me and all other beautiful and attractive women are false. I could not scape or cheat her. lolz
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@robert19ph (4577)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Simple and with good character and also with a great sense of humor attracts me for a female.
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@cancatis (406)
• Brazil
27 Apr 07
I'm a very intellectual-atracted person, so what took my girl to be attractive? She is smart, quick-minded, very open to new oportunities, happy and is also into arts, a lot. She has a cute face and body, which is physically what attracts me the most. I think I have my perfect match with me today. =D
I hope you have a good marriage and your wife attracts you too (beside other women attracting you =P).
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@meljessxena (2315)
• Australia
28 Apr 07
the type of male attracts me not always the good ones lol. i use to be attracted to blonde guys for some reason, but well i have been turned away from them who knows why think the blonde ones i have found seem to have hurt me the most.
usually also the skinny ones but now i dont go for fat ones exactly but just not to skinny if you know what i mean
and mainly guy that are country like, i dont really go for person that in the city coz im a farm person
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
29 Apr 07
well, i look for sensitive guys! those who can feel what i feel. he must also be smart too.. i need somebody whom i can talk to! somebody who makes sense. facewise, he oesnt really have to be very hansome, just good enough. umm.. i want him at least a few inches taller than me too. you know height does matter to me!:) he must also be reponsible or else i will end up working and earning for the family if he will not work! and most importantly, he should love me so much and he must make me feel that way.. love is the most important element for me! i mean, i would be with a guy who doesnt love me and whom i dont love because everything else will still not work!:)
@Ravrockin (281)
• India
29 Apr 07
Even i attracts towards natural & simple look up gorgeous.I more attract to slim,fair,heighted nice figures girls.Because its really make me crazy.I have one nice & beautiful girlfriend to whom i really love very much than to attracts with other girls.Now its enough this topic will never end an my girlfriend will read it she will do the same what your wife can do.
@easyzheng (666)
• China
28 Apr 07
It's quite natural for a married husband to be attracted by pretty females. The point is you can appreciate them and enjoy by looking at them. but you can't dream of getting them and betraying your wife. I'm married also, and I also like those very bright and sunshining boys. Just appreciate their outlook and claim: What a wonderful man! I think nobody should object to my doing so.
@vishupatel (15)
• India
28 Apr 07
i like a slim girl like a long face n highted girl.
n looking sexy.
@kenetot18 (452)
• United States
28 Apr 07
i'm attracted to a funny guy! i love a huge sense of humor!