are you afraid of change in your life?

China
April 27, 2007 12:00am CST
I am afraid of change in my life,because I am a timid and lazy person.when there are some changes,I have to adjust myself to adapt them.so I prefer there is no change in life,no matter good change or not.maybe this kind of life seems some arid,but I am this kind of person,some negtive. what about you?share with us here!
7 responses
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
i can easily get attached to the current status of my life. i am easily contented with what i have even if i have bad things in my life. i am scared of changes because it will cause me to adjust once more and to again build a new life. somehow though, i try to think that changes make you strong and flexible and i just thank God for all those changes. i guess they make my life exciting
• China
27 Apr 07
maybe I should change myself at first haha!
@dll006 (17)
• China
27 Apr 07
i'm delighted in the face of change and challenge.change means another opportunity comes to you,another chance to prove that you can. Take my job for instance,when it comes to the "glass ceiling",i will choose to quit and choose another field,which made my life rich and colorful.
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• China
27 Apr 07
you are brave and I believe you are pretty special.keep on going!
@tombiz (2036)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
Changes can be daunting and can be a source of pressures sometimes. But there is no permanent in life but change. Sometimes no matter how we hold on to the current state, we really have to let go for our own peace and happiness. There are times, I am afraid of changes too. But I realized that being afraid will never change anything, it will only worsen the situation. There are changes I also love, of course. I like my new hair now better than say 2 months ago hehehehe. Though I am getting fatter now than say 3 months ago so this is an area I have to change. Changes are just like seasons where everything got reasons.
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
I think its not about being afraid of the changes in our life, even where we are now came through stages of change. I think its the abrupt ones that gives a scare for the unknown things they brought with it. Whether we like it or not, conscious or not, they will happen. Its is bound to, its just more antagonizing for the ones that resists it with lesser cause. Its best to be someone you love so dear, the feeling of suffering gets to be alleviated in a way & more bearable. Go with the change, do it slowly or fast, up to you. The best part embrace it & master it.
• United States
27 Apr 07
I'm afraid of change. Right now I'm happily married, but I don't have a job, and all opportunities I see online sound good, but in many ways I'm afraid to try because they may not work. I want more and I know I could try harder but it's that thing, that fear that holds me back. I really don't know why I feel this way, but I do want to improve my life and make it better.
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• China
27 Apr 07
your condition is the same with one of my friend,she has out of work for about two years.she wants to work to,but she is afraid to find one.my dear friend,go out to have a try,the longer you stay at home,the harder you find a good job.just have a try,good luck!
@sabwinner (499)
• China
27 Apr 07
Normally, I like changes in my life. If I keep one thing doing on and on, that just lose attraction to me and I'll feel kind of boring. I think it's hard to get bit progress just on one position of one place. If you keep changing and take the opportunity wisely, you are easy to get promotion, better pay or even better living condition. So I like change which bring good result to me.
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@massageeh (965)
• Taiwan
27 Apr 07
I welocme change. I'm the type of person who likes to change, either in life or business. I find change is a part of growth. Sometimes I get tired of doing the same things, and would start to affect my work and attitude.