Forgiving

@capssy07 (207)
Philippines
April 27, 2007 12:09am CST
One of the touchest thing to do is to forgive. It is not easy to do because sometimes really touched our pride as a person. And because our pride is so touched, forgiving is just like swallowing it. It cannot be easily given to anyone especially when the one that badly hurts you is the one we really trust. Is it wrong not to forgive immediately the person you trust? What must be the thing to consider for you to forgive your trusted one?
4 responses
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
21 May 07
Forgiving removes the pain and burden in your heart and thereby frees you of your difficulties too.
• Indonesia
27 Apr 07
Who said it's going to be easy, but just try again and again to forgive and you will know one day that forgiving is not as difficult as you imagine before. As for me, i always forgive everyone. Why? because i know human always make mistake and tend to loose control of themselves and eventually they will make others suffer including me. i can't guarantee that, so i tend to always forgive everyone even if they didn't ask. Why? This is to educate myself. if i made mistake and make somebody hurt, i try as quickly as possible to ask for his/her forgiveness
@johnwat (382)
• India
27 Apr 07
i think u should forgive...... if that persons hurts, ask him why did he do that and slove the problem...........or u don't like to talk with him. find a person who can trust and like. remember: 1)find a person trust u and like's u.... 2)not the person u like! i think i got the point
@kaevielf (245)
• China
27 Apr 07
To sincerely forgive someone who wronged or hurt you is hard. But everybody is capable to do so. We can't forgive if pride is on the way. We can't forgive if we still hold on to grudges. We can't forgive if we don't let go of the past. Above all, we can't forgive without His help. We need to ask God's grace in order for us to be able to sincerely forgive. It helps to keep in mind that whenever we forgive we are doing it primarily for ourself. We are hurting our inner self if we don't want to forgive.