What would you do if you like someone, like a girl?

Philippines
April 27, 2007 4:58am CST
I know it is a ridiculous question but I just want to know what other people do when they had a crush on someone or they like a certain person. Would you rather talk to her right away and say what you feel or would you rather observe her first. Learn her weakness, show some care or what. What would you guys?
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Chadanne
@Chadanne (253)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
I would like to obeserve her first. Saying it frankly could spoil the way things are. Things must be taken slowly beacause rushing things up makes it all messed up. Do you agree?
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bruxedo
@bruxedo (773)
• France
27 Apr 07
I agree with you. Of course I would rush to be with her/him most of the time I could, but I would be watching, trying to understand which were their thoughts about some values that are very important to me and let the things happen in the right moment.
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buangcla
@buangcla (21)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
I agree with you.. It's better to observe first, make a plan then make your move.
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trinidadvelasco
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
2 May 07
yes, know her first then let her know you a little, too. when a certain degree of trust is building up, the next step will be easier to pursue.
trinidadvelasco
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
2 May 07
please change your avatar, it does not look welcoming enough. go to the girl and try to strike a friendly conversation like what course is she taking if she is attending school, or if you can be friends. do not make any move about showing feelings beyond friendship yet. that might put the girl off and leave. wait until you are close enough to be called good friends.
buangcla
@buangcla (21)
• Philippines
2 May 07
sorry about my avatar, I'll change it to something nice. So that is how it is done, I shall get close to her first, make our friendship grow, and when the time comes. I'll strike..